Hey, just new to this. Part hoping to find some answers but another to know I am not alone - only so many tiktok videos will help. Recently became 40 and have been raising 2 children on my own. Their dad and I split due to his gambling addiction and other wider issues. I remarried but he had an affair before the wedding photography was even received so that gives you an indication as to how I went on a downward spiral I guess. In this spiral my older childrens father took his own life, and during this spiral I met a chap through work and fell pregnant. One disruptive relationship and a baby came from this. I adore my children but yet feel so alone in my journey. I do even know what I am meant to do. I have experienced extreme poverty, homelessness and most recently I am strugging with a sense of self. I also look after a family member who needs some care, that is very hard. I achieved my degree however unable to through myself into work as the childcare is too expensive and I am too tired most of the time. I guess I would love to hear from people who have been where I am been, or have any advice on how to handle a very busy life. My extended family did not support my choices with having a 3rd child so our relationship isn't strong enough to ask them for help. Any strong female out there who knows how to handle life? I'd appreciate your insight as to how you are super women