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To think being prejudiced against the privately educated is OK

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EastLondonObserver · 02/11/2022 13:39

I have spent 25 years working in the advertising industry at some of the most highly regarded agencies in the world. Most of these have been dominated (in certain roles, at least) by the privately educated who gained their entry to the industry through having personal/family contacts in it, were subbed by rich parents while working in low-paid or free internships to gain experience and had that empty confidence private schools instil.

Perfectly capable graduates educated comprehensive schools didn't get much of a look in. However a few managed to break through, including myself.

Consequently, throughout my career I have actively rejected almost all privately educated graduates applying for entry level positions. This runs into hundreds of applicants. I have managed to do this without being called out. Sometimes I have rejected them even when they clearly would have done a better job than a comprehensive school educated alternative. These were corporate companies - it made no meaningful difference to me if they were mildly less successful as a consequence. The only exception was one graduate educated at Harrow and Bristol. I gave him the job as an experiment. He was average at best.

I did this in the name of social justice: re-distributing opportunities away from those with unearned privilege.

Have I been unreasonable? Has anyone else done the same?

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EastLondonObserver · 05/11/2022 23:21

Readabookgroucho · 05/11/2022 21:31

‘Sorry I am quite cynical about this as Dh and I appear posh and have always moved and worked in circles where pretty much everyone else is privately educated and they assume we are too so we got to hear the behind the scenes comments 🙄.’

same. I have a regional accent and well spoken so my WC roots don’t show in my accent the way they would if I was English.

At work I hear all sorts as they assume I’m the same as them… we were discussing secondary schools as we’re choosing for next year and I said D.C. would be going to the local state secondary.
there was a big pause, then my boss said, won’t that be a bit of a shock after private? No, cos D.C. are in state primaries.
apparently I’m ‘brave’ for not choosing private schools, and a couple of colleagues genuinely flummoxed as to why I would choose state schools.
it was almost comical. I’m senior, and DP is in the same industry and well-known so money’s not the issue.
I choose my answers carefully so not to offend but the reality is I want my kids to be normal, mix with normal people from normal backgrounds, not just privileged kids. As it is our incomes already give them so many more advantages than either me or DP had as kids

I like your style!

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starray · 06/11/2022 01:55

Newgirls · 05/11/2022 08:39

I think HR does ‘bin’ applications based on where parents choose to send their kids

it isn’t written like that but that’s what is happening - and I have to say we get a better work force for it

Is it made clear at the outset that the company's policy to is to give priority to the less privileged? If it is, then fair enough. It's not fair to waste candidate's time on a job they don't have a cat in hell's chance of getting through no fault of their own.

starray · 06/11/2022 02:10

Zalturka · 05/11/2022 17:06

The way I see it, it doesn't matter against whom you're prejudiced. Prejudiced people will all have a whole pile or reasons why it's okay to be prejudiced against this particular category of people. Oh, look at these awful migrants who steal jobs from meritorious brits. Oh, look at these awful rich brats who steal jobs from the more deserving working class. It's the same toxic mindset, however you justify it to yourself.

Prejudice is prejudice. Either you think it's okay, or you don't. Obviously you think it's fine. The funny thing is you probably don't think it's fine to be discriminated against because you're a woman. But people who do are only doing the same thing you are, just to a different demographic. As if that makes it okay.

Exactly.

starray · 06/11/2022 02:15

Zalturka · 05/11/2022 18:58

I'm actually curious now. @EastLondonObserver, if you have children, did you purposely send them to the worst school in your area so as not to give them a "leg up" ? I mean clearly you can afford it, seeing as you're so successful. I hope you made sure they weren't tutored in any subjects if they struggled, either. You wouldn't want to give them unfair advantages over anyone.

Yes...did they have music lessons? Extra coaching in sport? Is your house in a nice area?

mathanxiety · 06/11/2022 04:09

@EastLondonObserver

What is it about Readabookgroucho's style that you like?

Is it the honesty?

mathanxiety · 06/11/2022 04:18

@Readabookgroucho

If you're proposing the principle that some discrimination is acceptable then you have to accept that all discrimination is acceptable.

Answerthedoor · 06/11/2022 06:47

EastLondonObserver · 05/11/2022 22:59

Exactly - this sort of thing (or now very low paid internships) is rife!

Is it though? It was in the past but it is now illegal to hire an intern and not pay them minimum wage. Work shadowing is fine but not working .Not paying your interns can get you into a lot of trouble.

EastLondonObserver · 06/11/2022 06:52

Answerthedoor · 06/11/2022 06:47

Is it though? It was in the past but it is now illegal to hire an intern and not pay them minimum wage. Work shadowing is fine but not working .Not paying your interns can get you into a lot of trouble.

The issue with these low paid internships is that it’s very hard for someone who isn’t handed money by rich parents, or can live at home in London* or within a commutable distance, to undertake them.

*where all the leading companies in many private school heavy professions still are

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EastLondonObserver · 06/11/2022 06:56

mathanxiety · 06/11/2022 04:18

@Readabookgroucho

If you're proposing the principle that some discrimination is acceptable then you have to accept that all discrimination is acceptable.

Funny how that hasn’t stopped all manner of affirmative action from taking place already.

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TheaBrandt · 06/11/2022 07:35

The comment about if some discrimination is acceptable than all is makes no sense. And undermines your argument anyway as there’s clearly been discrimination against state educated candidates for decades (just look. at who has the top jobs) so why is discrimination in this other direction so upsetting you?

Readabookgroucho · 06/11/2022 07:58

‘Yes...did they have music lessons? Extra coaching in sport? Is your house in a nice area?’

Mine do. yes, yes and yes. They’re very lucky. They’re already more privileged than so many kids. They’re white, they live in a nice area, they go to okay state schools, they have parents who value education, who have ability and time to help in that education,
they take part in hobbies that they live and that we can afford.
they’re going to have a much easier ride through life than many kids.

which is why I feel zero guilt about helping or favouring the graduates who had a similar upbringing to mine. An estate kid who still made it to college despite lack of money and opportunities growing up.

TheaBrandt · 06/11/2022 08:04

Have you seen that short film where they put a load of late teens on a running track for a race. They ask a series of questions. Each time you answer you no you take a stride back from the start line. Is your dad living at home? Is there always food on the table? Have you always been able to do any extra curriculars you choose? Do you always feel safe at home? Etc. Then they start the race and some kids try so hard and run so fast but because they’ve taken so many steps back they cannot win. Breaks my heart every time.

Readabookgroucho · 06/11/2022 08:07

‘The issue with these low paid internships is that it’s very hard for someone who isn’t handed money by rich parents, or can live at home in London* or within a commutable distance, to undertake them.’

yup. In publishing even the entry level jobs for grads are so low paid many can’t take them unless they’re living at home or having parents help.

I’ve been trying to get my employer to offer an apprenticeship that pays a living wage AND has some kind of bursary attached to it, and it’s been a nightmare of red tape and ‘nos’ so far. We are literally a billion ££ + company.

the issue is the people who need to sign off in this are the types who don’t believe people really need food banks in the U.K., don’t believe that some 21/22 year olds really DO have to live independently ( the last WC girl I hired was a foster kid who’d been supporting herself from age 16 pretty much),
or they’ve bought into the narrative of the plucky working class kid, who gets full scholarships, works nights, and still excels at everything. The bar is so much higher for some reason for the children who’ve had the toughest road.

Newgirls · 06/11/2022 09:00

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For entry level posts how can you tell the skills and whether they fill a gap?

we can argue that someone from a state school or a background different from the team will do that - I can see that for advertising - a range of perspectives to reach a range of customers

TheaBrandt · 06/11/2022 09:05

Also if it’s that close both will be “strong” candidates so almost certain that either one would be a perfectly good choice,

TheaBrandt · 06/11/2022 09:07

Yeah they are juniors - what’s all this talk of having the right skills?! All the recruiter
has is ro go on is raw material /exam results /interests / arguably back ground.

Jamimas · 06/11/2022 09:12

Yeah they are juniors - what’s all this talk of having the right skills?!

Depending on the industry, coding skills, IT skills, technical skills, language skills for example.

LolaSmiles · 06/11/2022 09:17

For entry level posts how can you tell the skills and whether they fill a gap?
You don't think someone who knows their team is able to identify where the gaps are in their team, and in the event of having a couple of good applicants make a judgement which one would work well for the team? They probably shouldn't be in recruitment then, after all they would struggle to decide between 3 adults who were state educated too as it's impossible to make a recruitment decision unless you know where they went to school at 11.

This is the very end of whatabout, but whatabout, but what if by magic all the programmes to address structural inequalities were done, and whatabout at the end ...
None of which is that relevant to someone binning an application based on the fact they don't like the choices of the applicant's parent.

Readabookgroucho · 06/11/2022 09:18

‘For entry level posts how can you tell the skills and whether they fill a gap?’

its about attitude and general work experience for me. I’ll take someone who worked PT at Maccy Ds all through their A Levels, or Uni over the candidate who’s parents paid for everything and were able to give them an allowance every time.
I had a candidate who’s ‘experience’ included volunteering teaching children to ride ponies at a horse centre ( on checking it was a private club) and working as a ski instructor for free ski-ing and board on a gap year. Which was fine, but I had little use for someone who could ski well. Or taught small posh children how to groom a horse.
Offered the job to the candidate who worked in the Uni library and at Pizza Hut instead. She had to learn new systems, IT, work with all sorts of people and worked both jobs at the same time all through uni.

TheaBrandt · 06/11/2022 09:18

If they have got that far through the process presumably their skill sets similar?

LolaSmiles · 06/11/2022 09:21

Depending on the industry, coding skills, IT skills, technical skills, language skills for example.
Yes, or ways they've found to develop their interests in the field, or whether one has a more accessible way of presenting and explaining that will go down better with clients.
Or knowing your team and team dynamics and thinking about collaboration across the team, or having an idea of how you'd be allocating staff to different projects.

And, shh, different companies might make a different choice between the 3 applicants depending on what the company needed at that time, or the same company might have gone with any of the 3 under different circumstances.

Unless of course people want us to believe there's no difference at all in two or three people other than their education choice at 11.

TheaBrandt · 06/11/2022 09:21

So the decision does come down to personality raw material and “fit” for the team. The last is dodgy though the “fit” at my old team was male white public school easy going.

LolaSmiles · 06/11/2022 09:27

So the decision does come down to personality raw material and “fit” for the team. The last is dodgy though the “fit” at my old team was male white public school easy going.
Considering the team is common sense. It doesn't mean fitting in or being the same.

If you had 3 applicants all state educated then you'd make a decision about which one to appoint.

So if apparently there's no difference in candidates other than whether they're educated privately or in the state sector, what do you do?

After all recruiters can't tell the difference between candidates and they're wrong for considering the strengths and weaknesses of the team, and they're either wrong for considering how a candidate would relate to clients or simply aren't capable of judging this.

They probably shouldn't be in recruitment if they wouldn't be capable of assessing which of 3 state educated applicants to appoint.

Jamimas · 06/11/2022 09:38

If they have got that far through the process presumably their skill sets similar?

How far in the process? Applying to a graduate scheme?

Why would you assume that the skill sets of two applicants are similar?

Answerthedoor · 06/11/2022 09:43

TheaBrandt · 06/11/2022 09:21

So the decision does come down to personality raw material and “fit” for the team. The last is dodgy though the “fit” at my old team was male white public school easy going.

Fit for us is well defined - everyone is given a copy of fit before the interview, it has nothing to do with being white, male and public schooling - it relates to your attributes, values and how you like to work, and our staff are rewarded for living our values which very often reflect how they treat other people in the team.

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