I work nights as part of my job, and I am an auxiliary.
I do have childcare during the week which makes it easier. My routine when I am on nights is get in at 7.30-8. Sort DD out and take her to nursery, then I sleep until about 2, but it is hard to sleep during the day sometimes. Then pick her up, spend the afternoon with her, and have an early dinner.
I like them because I get to spend a lot of time with DD, but when I work nights I don't see my husband at all. I also don't get enough sleep so I am tired.
It depends what ward you work on tbh. My ward is pretty busy all night, because we are linked to A&E. Where I worked before this the ward was totally dead at night, so honestly it could be a bit of a challenge to stay awake sometimes!
I also did nights in a carehome a while back, but I was child-free then so it was quite easy. I did miss my days though and it ruined my sleep habits, but I worked fulltime then.
And nutty I have said it before and I am going to say it again, if you want to be a nurse then you have to deal with the elderly, and their bums, but its not a huge issue at night, and its not that bad. I promise!
You don't need care experience as an aux, and to be honest a lot of it will come automatically, but if you are unsure you must ask, and don't do anything you are not comfortable with it. If its not right for you then IME you don't last long in the job.