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NurseryNurse10 · 09/09/2022 12:44

I'm a qualified and experienced childcare worker. Agency work suits me as I have chronic illnesses and don't want to rush into a new nanny job which is what I was doing previously.
For many months I helped at a nursery which was pretty much all agency staff. It was very stressful but the kids were lovely and the manager was always very welcoming, saying how brilliant I was. I also used to help short notice when other workers cancelled their shifts (which they do almost everyday).
That all changed when a new deputy started the other week. She yells at the children constantly, no patience with them, makes them do age inappropriate tasks such as standing against a wall despite them only being 2 years old (and making them wait) and have seen her grab their arms to get them into line.
She was also very rude to me. Rolling her eyes at me in an exasperated way to other members of staff when I couldn't understand her, making sarcastic comments to me and ordering me around with no please or thank you. Other workers feel the same as me. So I reported it to the manager in an email and she said -1. Rolling her eyes is just this lady's way and nothing personal. 2. She is just loud and doesn't intend to yell and 3. She is trying to get the kids into a routine and doesn't realise how she comes across as English is her second language. She said she hopes I change my mind and come back.
I'm not satisfied with this response. What do you think?

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JanetandJohn500 · 09/09/2022 14:57

Report to OFSTED. You've followed the policy and they've ignored you

NurseryNurse10 · 09/09/2022 19:05

I wasn't ignored but I felt I was not taken seriously. It really angers me that this has just been passed off as 'Well, it's just the way she is. She doesn't mean to yell at the kids. She's just loud. Also, her just rolling her eyes? It's It's way she is! Don't take it personally!
It's disgusting. In no other work environment would she get away with this.

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BlueBirdFly · 14/09/2022 18:51

I don’t like it at all. She’s getting away with it too.

All this crap about ‘it’s just the way she is, etc’, I hate it when they say this. Just imagine if it was you and they’d be plenty of people complaining then. It is disgusting I agree.

NurseryNurse10 · 14/09/2022 18:56

It is disgusting.
I feel like I was not listened to or taken seriously. Will never go back there but angry still at how it has been brushed under the carpet and how I was made to feel.

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Randomword6 · 20/09/2022 17:53

JanetandJohn500 · 09/09/2022 14:57

Report to OFSTED. You've followed the policy and they've ignored you

I agree
It sounds appalling. I think you have done the right thing for yourself by refusing to work there but would you be able to let some parents know? Perhaps a bit of fly on the wall stuff (filming) could be used to demonstrate her inappropriate behaviour?

NurseryNurse10 · 20/09/2022 22:06

I wont go back there because of how I was treated. I also feel like I overestimated my importance there. I was one of the few qualified and experienced ones but the manager was clearly on the side of this woman and does not see an issue with her behaviour.
I wish I could secretly record but would get in trouble for it. I've been left feeling like I overreacted but I should have known they would stick together.

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