Not a typical mumsnetty question but just looking for a bit of advice and no-one in my immediate circle is being that helpful! Perhaps someone on here has some expertise in this area.
I run a very small not for profit enterprise. We help ex-offenders get access to the music industry and train them up. We are only very small (15 people a year) but we do good work and they have gone on to work in the sector.
We are organising a special gala night to try to generate a bit of support, publicity and donations. It coincides with our ten year anniversary in December. I really want us to ask a celebrity to attend to take part in a bit of a Q&A led by one of our ex-participants. This would give the gala a massive boost and encourage lots of people to attend, which we desperately need.
I have a famous musician / artist in mind who I met at something randomly, and they offered their support at the time and were very nice, and gave me their email. We followed up with a brief exchange but then the pandemic happened, so unfortunately that curtailed our email communication and threw everything in the air with me fighting for our project to survive (thankfully we kept going).
Anyway, whilst I'm a capable woman and working mum I'm absolutely useless at asking favours and asking for help, and especially the idea of sucking up to a celebrity makes my teeth shiver!
I have no idea what to say in my email and how to phrase what I am asking for.
I know this person is extremely busy and has been doing a lot of promotion for their new stuff recently and I realise we are very small fry!
Also we can budget to pay this person but I don't know whether to mention this - I know they might offer to do it for free but I don't want to presume, but at the same time our fee is peanuts to this person!
Anyway, what do I say and how do I ask for this help?