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Southeasterly · 01/06/2022 07:32

I’m after some advice regarding our son who is in his early 20’s. He worked in the travel industry before covid and absolutely loved it. He was in his element and was doing well. Then covid hit. He didn’t lose his job but it was starting to look like he might, so he got a job within a very secure public service industry. He enjoys it and is doing well but it’s not massively lighting his fire like the travel industry job did. However it’s completely secure. He will never be made redundant and the pay is quite good for his age.

He’s now been given an opportunity to go back into his beloved travel industry. My initial reaction was to tell him to stick with the security of his current job, we’re heading for recession, what if there’s another covid etc etc.

Ultimately we want him to be happy in his work but are worried about job security for him. We also appreciate he’s an adult and if you can’t take a risk in your early 20’s, when you’ve no responsibilities, when can you.

Can I ask what your thoughts would be, particularly from parents of young adults. Do we encourage him to go for what he loves, even though it’s not as secure, or does job security trump everything. The pay is similar to what he’s on now.

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yorkshirebird2382 · 01/06/2022 07:37

I think one thing covid has taught me is life is short and we get one go at it. Work is a massive part of it and what a blessing to find work you love and enjoy

It sounds like he got his new role without too much issue. Even if this new role fell through for whatever reason, there's no reason he couldn't find something else. He can leave his current role on good terms.

He can take measures such as putting a bit aside each month in case the worst were to happen

Its easy to say when your an outsider but honestly i hope I'd encourage him to go for it!

Someaddedsugar · 01/06/2022 07:42

Like @yorkshirebird2382 says, life is short and you spend a lot of time at work. If he has a passion I would personally encourage him to go for it and find a role he loves. He'll take transferable skills from any role that he can then apply elsewhere so hopefully that should ease some of the worry.

Aprilx · 01/06/2022 09:11

He is in his 20s, you cannot possibly know that for the next forty odd years he will have job security if he stays where he is. I feel a bit depressed even thinking about a 20 year old plodding along in a job that doesn’t interest him because it is safe! Of course he should go back to the job that holds interest and excitement for him!

KatherineJaneway · 01/06/2022 11:09

Let him do what he loves. He can worry about stability later in his career.

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