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She doesn’t like me..

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Silverwaring · 10/04/2022 20:43

My female Manager at work just doesn’t like me. Ive been doing the job for nearly 4 years but she always favoured my job share. This was done very obviously, chatting with her, listening to her, something she’s never done with me. My colleague left last year due to retirement and I’m treated no better. In meetings she can be very snide and borderline disrespectful towards me. No one dare say anything as she’s the Manager.
This in turn has affected my confidence and I feel quite low just thinking about work tomorrow. There’s another Skype team meeting and I’m dreading it. I’ve had a few crappy years personally as it is, and with this on top of everything I’m feeling very very low in myself.
I don’t know how to behave when she’s in the meeting, I now say very little but I know I should, just not sure what to do.
Has anyone been through this that could advise me?

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anniegun · 10/04/2022 20:47

You can ask for a meeting and discuss it with her. She may not realise her behaviour is affecting you. However in some case its just easier to find another job and move on.

belfastlass · 10/04/2022 21:54

4 years! ouch.

Honestly, it doesn't sound like she's going anywhere, so either try and get a transfer to a different team or start looking for a new job.

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