Hello Everyone
I'm in a retail job in a very small organisation and I've got a stage 2/3 bladder and uterine prolapse which has just come on in the last few months.
In my job I'm required to lift 10kg crates aswell as lighter things but a lot of bending down. My physio and gynae have said avoid the lifting and bending but it's probably 50% of my job. The other 50% I can do seated at a desk.
I've spoken to my boss who isnt being the most supportive at the moment. I want to stay in work and not go off on sick but my boss is putting up barriers to reasonable adjustments for me...he says he can't think how I could do my job without the lifting. He has performed a very loose risk assessment which shows complete lack of understanding about what a prolapse is despite me explaining. He thinks I'm going to 'heal' if I do 2 months of kegels. Physio has said kegels might help but the amount of scar tissue internally will prevent a large part of the pelvic floor from responding so it's more of a change of lifestyle thing to put off surgery for as long as I can. Even after surgery I won't be able to go back to 10kg crate lifts.
We're small so we have 1 person in HR who I don't know and no occupational health team. I'm under the NHS but the only 'evidence' I have of my condition is a short email my physio sent to me about what kegels to do and briefly outlining what a prolapse is
A few queries I have if anyone can help:
- Is it my job to make suggestions about reasonable adjustments. I could easily think of a few things he could do to make my time easier but as he's resistant should I be suggesting these or does he need to do this?
- Should he be bringing some kind of occupational health advisor on board to assess my risk fully?
- Am I actually entitled to ask for reasonable adjustments as this isn't effectively a 'disability' it's a condition
- What evidence of my condition is he allowed to ask to see?
- What evidence can I ask for from the NHS?
I've never had anything like this before, been lucky to never need sick leave/ have anything preventing me from doing my jobs in the past so I'm just trying to research myself but it's a minefield.
Ultimately I will be looking for a different job without any lifting but I've got ties to this job and I'd love for them to make it work for me but at the moment the support is lacking.... I'm being treated like this is my fault and I've chosen to prolapse.
Any help or advice would be gratefully received and thank you