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I utterly hate my job, what could I do instead

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GMH74 · 04/02/2022 17:51

I have a job I despise. I have two degrees, one of which is from Cambridge. This job doesn't even require a degree. I had to send in my GCSE certificates when I got it to prove I had them. That's how stupid it is. I'm so miserable. My manager is always complaining about something. The hours are awful as I have to cover evening meetings which go on til 10pm. It is also nearly an hour from home and I have to be there in person. I'm not even any good at covering meetings because I'm quite badly deaf.
I had a job which was a bit better before I had children but I took a long career break when I had children and then took pretty awful jobs to fit around them. I'm back in the sort of industry I was in pre children but the role is a lesser one. (I don't want to say too much in case I can be identified). There were a lot of cutbacks when I was taking a career break and so the sort of thing I had before in research and projects is much harder to get.
I've come into some money, do you think it would be mad to leave without having a job to go to in order to find something I want to do. Or even to re-train? I've done humanities-type subjects and my masters is very niche and not very employable. My first degree was a 2:2 so even though it was Cambridge it has shut a lot of doors. It wasn't a sensible subject either.
What would you do in my situation? Although I have money, my husband is constantly out of work so we would go through it pretty fast if neither of us were working.
As I say I have a humanities background and am good at research and projects. I'd like to work in education but have really poor hearing.
Please be kind. My work makes me miserable enough.

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nextslideplease · 06/02/2022 08:41

I'm deaf with several degrees

I work full time for a charity and I'm home based - you could try looking on charity jobs for something you could do from home, select the 'home based' option?

I use the captioning function on Zoom and Teams and I also use Access to Work funding for a Roger Pen device that plugs into the laptop to amplify sound and can also be used to amplify face to face discussions too.

So look at charity jobs and google 'Access to Work' and how to enable captions on video calls.

PermanentTemporary · 06/02/2022 08:48

I personally would always look for a job while I have a job - in general, employers prefer it and it takes the pressure off. I would also get into a better work situation before deciding to leave my marriage, because one big shift at a time you can concentrate on should have better results and because it just might be that if your working was better you'd hate your marriage less. But I'm not you and I'm not living your life.

Your job sounds shit, yes. So, time to look around. I work for the NHS and like it, so I'd certainly look on jobs.nhs.uk by area and or salary and see what's out there - research support work for example?

If most people commute, could you? That opens up all sorts of options. I agree about looking at the civil service - even now many will only be going in twice a week or similar. And the jobs can be fascinating.

leafinthewind · 06/02/2022 08:55

Third vote for civil service here. The recruitment process can be a bit brutal/drawn-out, so I think you should take the other piece of advice and buy some careers counselling first. You need to be a bit robust going in.

I'll also second the idea of university admin roles. Work-life balance is generally good (though they're massive employers and tend to the bureaucratic). I'm in a uni in the SE in a research job, but I've sometimes fancied the outreach and access jobs. You might get £30K for one of those, or maybe £23K in a straight admin role.

Bionicname · 06/02/2022 11:04

What sort of salary would you be looking for OP?

GMH74 · 06/02/2022 18:04

My current salary is not great and I find it difficult to live on when my husband is constantly out of work, it's about 28K, public sector. I know some people manage but supporting a family on it is hard. If I were commuting into London I'd realistically be looking for at least 35K.

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BlossomOfOrange · 23/04/2023 19:59

Hey OP, just wondering how you’re getting on, mainly because I’d like some hope, being in a similar mush position.

BlossomOfOrange · 23/04/2023 19:59

*similarish position (a bit mush too!)

MargotEdithAgnes · 23/04/2023 20:04

Keep your job but lose the husband would be my inclination! Then look for something new

MargotEdithAgnes · 23/04/2023 20:04

Oh sorry, this is an old thread! Just realised

If you do come back op, please let us know how you are

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