Argh, I can't believe it has come to this.
Short version. I work in a technical role. I am a woman, working part time because I have a 2 and 4 year old. My 2 colleagues in the same role as me are both male and full time. I work for a firm with 500 employees.
I found out last week that they have been meeting with one of the men to offer him what is effectively a promotion. They have not mentioned it to me, despite me being more qualified (I have professional qualifications, he does not). Before this, another role came up l, which would have been a promotion. My line manager spoke to both men about it, but not me. I now this is because they want/need to roles to be full time.
My line manager knows I want to progress and that I have been interested in both of these roles. I have spoken to my line manager twice today and yesterday, and both times he has repeatedly told me the role is full time, can not be part time. Friends think I should apply for the role anyway so they have to decline me on the basis of me being part time. In these meetings I have been told there is not and will not ever be any progression for me on a part time basis.
It has got to the stage where I am going to quit, I have been made to feel worthless and all trust has gone. But they have done this to could bless other women in this technical role so I feel like I should try and hold them to account. I have tried the informal approach and been rebuffed. I think I need to ask for a "written statement of reasons" as to why I have been treated unfavourably (because I am part time, Part Time Workers Regulations) but I have no idea how I would word this. I feel so out of my depth. Has anyone got any experience of requesting a written statement of reasons?
I just want to quit and run away but worried if I do that I might lose my chance to show them for the frauds they are and stop other women being badly treated by them.