I'm going to try not to drip feed but also need to not out myself. I called my Manager out on inappropriate behaviour of how he talked to me, in a conversation a couple of months ago and via messages not any lewd behaviour. We are encouraged to do so in an appropriate manner in the workplace. Partly I wish I hadn't as it has been a very stressful couple of months but then part of me thinks that they really shouldn't be able to get away with being abrupt, and quite frankly being really off with me when all I'm trying to do is complete my tasks then go home. So 2 questions, after another curt message today, would you still push on and challenge this inappropriate behaviour or let them get away with it, as calling it out has caused such stress. I have a tendency to overthink so my 2nd question is how do any of you switch off from work if encountering problems like this, I just know I'll be awake in the early hours making it bigger than it is. But truth is I feel intimidated by his abruptness and am dreading having to deal with possibly more tomorrow