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HELP I hate my job!

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ChalfontPark · 05/11/2021 18:55

I don't know why I am posting really, but I'm in such a funk with my career at the moment.

I've been in my office job for 10 years and I am hating it more by the day; nice colleagues have left and not so nice ones joined and the overall the culture is changing. The department I work in is set to be amalgamated with another which could make for a fresh start and some exciting new challenges but I don't like the people I'll be working with when this happens, nor the ethos of that department; it'll be very target driven and this just isn't me.

I think I've just been there too long – I don't have the energy to adapt to change or like it enough to want to. It's time to go.

I've applied for a couple of positions that I like the look of but not got interviews, but openings that excite me are few and far between plus I can only work part time due to other commitments.

And my confidence is really low - I'm menopausal so perhaps that has something to do with it? I'd like to do something a bit different than an office job but i don't know what and I'm somehow doubting my ability to do the most basic things. The idea of a new role and high expectations of new employers paralyses me.

My children are older and don't need me anymore, but elderly parents are a drain and I feel constantly wrung out with life. I wish I could be a housewife! But we need the money, especially with the cost of living increasing so much.

Ugh. Thanks for reading this far.

OP posts:
emmathedilemma · 05/11/2021 19:05

What sort of office job do you currently do?

ChalfontPark · 05/11/2021 19:22

@emmathedilemma

What sort of office job do you currently do?
Customer service but quite involved (technical knowledge)
OP posts:
LSLLM · 05/11/2021 19:22

It’s been 10 years. No doubt you’re long overdue a pay increase equal to your skills. Get out. Life is too short to be miserable.

Sweetchocolatecandy · 05/11/2021 22:04

OP I could have written your post. I’m sat here on a Friday night feeling so miserable about having to go to work on Monday..it’s not right is it. I’ve also been in my job for 10 years and I know I need a change but like you I really lack confidence and I’m scared of change! Sorry, no advice- just wanted you to know you are not alone.

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