Finding confidence and motivation to go back to work

[Walkingriver]

I’ve been a SAHM for over 6 years and wish to go back to work, probably part-time initially and then full-time in 1-2 years.

The issue is that my confidence in myself, and motivation, feels absolutely destroyed through being at home and out of touch of the work environment for so long.

I had an interview a few months ago and the feedback was all completely positive but I was just edged out by someone with specific experience in the role. I felt quite bouyed by this for a while but then a further two job applications were rejected and it’s really hit my confidence. I know I should not expect most employers to be remotely interested in someone who’s been out of work for so long, but I never expected to feel so dejected.

I volunteer for the school PTA but haven’t even got the motivation to find more volunteering work anyone, which isn’t helped by there not actually being much available at all locally.

How can I find and muster the confidence and motivation to start seriously job hunting and handle the inevitable rejection? DH says some employers will see past my 6 years out of the workforce, and see the 20 solid years I did spend working after Uni, but I just have no faith.

What about temping, to get your confidence back and some recent experience?

Op, I took 5 years out myself as a single parent and recently started contracting to ease me back in. Granted I indirectly work for younger people but I have been able to build up my confidence/experience whilst here and they now want me to stay another year. Depending on what field you were in, try an agency who can sell you/your situation. You got good feedback already and actually a couple of rejections is nothing. I was also told by some direct recruiters that there are so many people looking that they can pick and choose however look at me now! The right company will value your experience and take you on. Also have you tried these Back to Work schemes where companies target parents going back to work after a long break. I used to get tons of emails on these sent to me.

OP, you need to be realistic and know it won’t be easy (I speak from experience).

Have a look at company returners programs as they are specifically for women in this situation.