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Would you look down on someone who does a low skilled job all there life?

76 replies

SurreyMan93 · 29/09/2021 19:35

Hi all,

Im just wondering what’s your thoughts on someone who decides to do a low skilled job all there life and would you look down on them?

As I’ve come across people who don’t treat the said people with respect.

Thanks

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StrictlyAFemaleFemale · 29/09/2021 21:13

20 years ago I would have. Not anymore.

AmandaHoldensLips · 29/09/2021 21:16

I admire anyone and everyone who gets up and goes to work in any job. High skilled or low skilled they are just as important as each other. And I fucking hate people who think they are better than others by way of job status. Total arseholes.

Maverickess · 29/09/2021 21:19

@StrictlyAFemaleFemale

20 years ago I would have. Not anymore.
I'm genuinely interested why you would have 20 years ago and what's changed your attitude now?

I promise I'm not being an arse, I'm genuinely interested in what changed your opinion 🙂

WhyOhWhyOhWhyyyy · 29/09/2021 21:29

I wouldn’t look down on someone for doing a low skilled/low paid job, but I do judge people who complain about their jobs/pay but do nothing to change jobs or to progress.

MsMeNz · 29/09/2021 21:39

No not at all, I can be a little snobby, but not about ppls job I respect people who work for a living.

I have a highish flying corporate job now, earning 6 figures (it's taken time to build up to)ml my husband is just above min wage and we are both satisfied. But I've also since I was 15. Worked as a cleaner, worked in many factories, takeaways etc to earn my own money around school and uni etc.

PreparationPreparationPrep · 29/09/2021 21:40

*I'm genuinely interested why you would have 20 years ago and what's changed your attitude now?

I promise I'm not being an arse, I'm genuinely interested in what changed your opinion* 🙂

I know this wasn't for me but I would say maturity and life experience. Maturity and exposure give you a better understanding of society. There are many highly qualified people in low paid jobs but we wouldn't know this Unless we know them personally.

Mantlemoose · 29/09/2021 21:59

No never have done and never will do. These 'low skilled' jobs are the jobs that keep the country running and the last 1.5 years really have shown how important the least well paid of our workforce is. Massive thank you to all the cleaners, the shop assistants and the delivery drivers!!

Iloveabourbon2 · 29/09/2021 22:00

@Thatsplentyjack

You mean low paid. I don't believe there are any low skilled jobs, and no. Just because someone doesn't earn a lot of money doesn't mean they aren't as worthy of respect as a high earner. People don't deserve respect just because they have more assets or disposable income.
It's not just the money. It's the job "status" that comes with it.
listentomydeclaration · 30/09/2021 14:46

Its not the job itself I would judge TBH, but I do judge someone who went to university, got a degree, and then spent their entire life post university doing something that doesn't need any qualifications.

I do know that people can struggle to get family friendly hours but the people I'm thinking of made this decision pre kids and stayed in that kind of role post kids.

It just seems a waste of time, money and skills, IMO

PostItNow · 01/10/2021 07:16

Funny thing giving someone respect based on their perceived salary - their skill at the job would be hard to determine unless you worked directly with them but I’m sure people do - they are superficial dicks!

Spindrifting · 01/10/2021 07:20

@Biancadelrioisback

People do what is best for them and their family. For some, working low paid jobs gives them flexibility that they wouldn't have in a higher paid job. For others, it's enough for them. They don't want to retrain or take on more responsibility. And that is completely fine.
What complicated things is when that person has a large family they can’t support financially and still stubbornly refuses promotions because it would be ‘too much hassle’., while working in the same unskilled job from being a 13-year-old school-leaver to retirement.
MarshmallowSwede · 01/10/2021 07:25

No definitely not. I judge people who treat service workers or anyone they deem as “unskilled with disdain to be assholes.

I believe in treating all people with respect. Your job doesn’t make you less or more worthy of respect.

kinzarose · 01/10/2021 07:36

No not at all, and I would never assume they aren't 'skilled' either. My dd's current TA was a senior lecturer in an RG uni for years, she has a PhD but desperately wanted out of academia and something that she wouldn't be taking work home.

In saying that, I know quite a few women who choose low paid work so they can do the minimum amount of work and still maximize their benefits. So I don't always assume they are all the salt of the earth types either.

Odile13 · 01/10/2021 07:40

Absolutely not. Any job is worth doing and valuable. I don’t respect the kind of people who look down on those in lower skilled jobs or think that they don’t ‘work hard’.

I used to work somewhere where a few colleagues would say something like “I might as well go and work at Tesco’s” as if it was an easy job. I always thought they’d last about five minutes given how stressful and pressurised retail can be.

itsme · 01/10/2021 07:50

I value staff in any position, but that's because I was brought up to respect people and not be a dick.

EmpressWitchDoesntBurn · 01/10/2021 09:40

I’m thinking now about jobs I would look down on. People who market cigarettes to new audiences - that’s pretty despicable. Owners and management at lapdancing clubs. The staff of Pornhub.

thisyearsuckssofar · 01/10/2021 15:57

No I don't judge. I judge the character of that person who looks down on others.

Runaround50 · 01/10/2021 16:44

I would never look down on anyone, regardless of the work they do.

I have been a teacher, earning good money and now I’m a TA earning crap money!

Maverickess · 01/10/2021 17:06

@PreparationPreparationPrep

*I'm genuinely interested why you would have 20 years ago and what's changed your attitude now?

I promise I'm not being an arse, I'm genuinely interested in what changed your opinion* 🙂

I know this wasn't for me but I would say maturity and life experience. Maturity and exposure give you a better understanding of society. There are many highly qualified people in low paid jobs but we wouldn't know this Unless we know them personally.

Thank you. (This next but isn't directed at you specifically but a general observation)

I'm always a bit baffled by the idea that anyone in a job that's perceived to be low skilled should be respected because they might be highly qualified in a different area or studying at university and doing the job to make a bit of money - not because they're a person themselves, or simply because of the job they're doing, like they only deserve any respect because they might have a degree or education you might not know about, that's not in keeping with the perception of the job itself.

It seems that the monetary value of a job is the only indicator for some of what level of respect they're due, not the overall value, of what that job contributes towards society in other ways.

Low paid jobs usually have some element of public facing too, where there's a relentless demand for 100% perfection and very little tolerance towards the person delivering the service for it not being so, regardless of the reason - there's many complaints about covid being used as an excuse for poor customer service when things had to change, by law, for example. And an attitude that these workers were 'power hungry' rather than following the directions from above, and don't have the leeway to make 'common sense decisions' because they are micromanaged within an inch of their lives. To do so often means going against company policy and the concequences that brings. The companies don't have respect for their staff and the people using the service then follow suit. Most of the policies are designed to save money though, not deliver customer service.

You need some level of experience in at least some areas of any low paid and low respected job in order to provide the service that is demanded, and that demand gets higher all the time. You get that experience practically, by working the job, and a lot of the time, people using a job as a stepping stone or temporarily take their experience with them when they leave, or do the bare minimum to get by and get paid.
Everyone wants their 'experience' either in a shop transaction, or a meal out or their elderly relatives care, to be perfect and right, and it to be delivered by someone who cares about that, you only really get that with believing in what you do and having experience in that area to know what makes the difference. We need people who work a lifetime in these jobs in order to have that bank of experience and knowledge to deliver the service level required.
I asked this on a similar thread, would you rather your elderly and vulnerable relatives be cared for by someone who believes in what they're doing, has experience and knowledge built up from years of working that job and is passionate about it, or someone who's learned the bare minimum skills to get by because they just want the wage packet at the end of the month, as they're studying for something else, or they need a bit of extra cash that their 'real' job isn't providing?
The second person probably garners more respect than the first, yet the first probably actually does the job better and delivers better care.

We need to look past the monetary value of any job, and see the real value behind it. Without many of them people would be cleaning their own homes and offices, looking after their own children and vulnerable relatives and facing empty shelves in supermarkets and where would that leave them?
I feel a lot of these jobs are taken for granted, that someone will do them and that the skills needed for delivering a good service are not low, they're simply not valued.

NHSWoes · 01/10/2021 18:25

I 100% don't judge anyone for the job they do, but I do find it irritating when people moan about their job and / or ability to make money (particularly women of a certain age / demographic who often rely on their DH) but make no attempt to progress

Chillychangchoo · 01/10/2021 21:33

No. I’ve done many jobs over the years from one end of the spectrum to the other in terms of status.

My own opinion now is the lower paid jobs are often so much more rewarding/fun.

I have become increasingly unhappier the with each upwards step.

Chillychangchoo · 01/10/2021 21:33

Sorry, awful typos.

Strangevipers · 01/10/2021 21:38

No I respect anyone who holds down a job ! That's the real skill

IceCreamAndCandyfloss · 02/10/2021 15:38

The job itself wouldn’t matter to me unless it meant not being able to self support and therefore expecting others to pick up the costs for a personal choice.

BlossomingSlowly · 02/10/2021 18:50

No, never. Growing up all we heard in school was "get your GCSEs or you'll end up working in McDonalds!". I worked part-time in a cafe a few years ago and it was bloody hard. On your feet all day, constantly needing to update your knowledge on the food/menu for when customers ask, taking temp of hot food to ensure it's hot enough to meet standards, dealing with customer complaints, and learning what "I have the 10p!" means when serving at the till! There was plenty of skill involved in it, and although it wasn't rocket science it was something I think a lot of highly skilled workers in other sectors would struggle with, purely because they're used to their line of work and it's specific skill set.

I went to uni, got a 1st class degree and went on to work in pastoral care in secondary schools. Loved the children but management were awful and I ended up being signed off work after a breakdown and with severe depression. I've recently gone self-employed running my own pet care business, doing dog walking, cat sitting, home dog boarding and anything in between. It's not a "skilled" job. I suppose the vast majority of people would be capable of it, but I hope that my passion for animals shines through and my knowledge around them makes my work worth paying for. If you enjoy what you do, it doesn't matter whether it's a complex and intricate job, or a simple and easy one. Happiness is key

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