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What makes you not want to work with someone again?

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monotonousmum · 22/09/2021 12:45

I'm sure we have all worked with some awful people, whether employees/colleagues or bosses. But is there anyone you've worked with who you like and get on well with but would never work with again?

I recently had a girl working on my team (situation probably made more difficult by officially sharing the same line manager but me being prompted to lead the team but not officially reporting to me) who has thankfully left now but I'd never work with again.

On a personal level she was lovely. We got on well and she's a good person (out of work!), but she was so incredibly lazy and unmotivated. She worked there a few years and the situation was never/could never be properly addressed. 'Rules' were put in place for the whole team to follow basically just to encourage her to work - didn't make a difference, just made everyone else's job worse. She'd literally just browse the Internet all day and leave the work for everyone else, occasionally picking out some easy tasks when they were available. Constantly made mistakes, complained of micro managing when asked to rectify. Arranged a different shift due to a health issue (but privately told me she could ask her doctor to say anything), new shift started and finished later but she'd swan in with a coffee 30-45 mins past her new start time and leave as soon as she was sure everyone else had left the office. She could talk the talk and would always make it sound to people outside the team she was doing loads of work. She was perfectly capable, but just wasn't doing the work. I pulled her up on it myself but she just played dumb and said she was doing the work!!

I'm actually more annoyed at my line manager for not addressing the issue, despite constant complaints and reassurances he'd deal with it.

she's now left for a completely different career, but I do wonder if the laziness will persist in the new role or if she was just not motivated.

Is laziness the worst trait in an otherwise good person? Do you know someone you'd never work with again?

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ilovemydogandmrobama2 · 22/09/2021 12:57

Yup, similar. Ex colleague was mostly on social media or doing course, which tbh, was sponsored by employer, but I did all of my work and her work where she did the, 'glory,' stuff such as pivot tables and pretty graphs every month. She kissed every senior manager's ass, to least the males ones as she somehow didn't get along with women Hmm.

She had so much personal drama in her life that it made me actually not hate her and thought of her as a fragile woman.

Eventually I left as I couldn't stand that she was literally doing nothing all day and I was carrying her, and on the day I handed in my notice, unbeknownst to me, she handed hers in too. Grin

languagelover96 · 23/09/2021 10:01

My fellow community support worker was a crazy old toad. I had her for more than a year (I am stupid for putting up with her idiocy). I kept wondering if she was on Prozac (she talked utter rubbish and was untrustworthy etc). She clearly did not have a brain, I observed her during every training session. I had to finally give her a dose of her own medicine when she went too far though she has not learned her lesson so I am considering complaining. The idiot had no sense of teamwork and I refuse flatly to work with people like that.

dubyalass · 24/09/2021 13:23

Generally I've had great colleagues. But I would say that the following are not ideal:

  1. perpetual victim (I know my rights! Except they don't)
  2. lazy yet entitled (see 1.)
  3. issues tasks telepathically
  4. the gossip
  5. the Eeyore (everything is shit but I am unprepared to remedy the situation because then what would I complain about? See also 1.)
  6. the ill-informed gobshite with an opinion on anything, particularly stuff they know nothing about
  7. Body odour/bad breath/sex pest.

There are loads more. Don't be any of these people.

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