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StrongerThanA90sTrend · 02/09/2021 19:29

I went for a job interview yesterday.

It's a full time admin role. When I applied, I had been thinking about the possibility of putting my youngest into full time childcare. I didn't hear anything back for a couple weeks. Out of the plus last week, they called me and asked me to interview. I was surprised really, as I've been a sahm for a good few years now, and applying for admin work is a bit of a 'career change' for me, so couldn't for the life of me think why they'd even want to interview me (as no one else had!) in the time between applying for the job, I had decided that I didn't want to send my daughter to full time childcare. She loves her preschool, for one.

I spoke to some friends who advised I just go to the interview and if they liked me, they may consider reduced hours.

So I went. And I actually think it went really well. It was laid back, and I was really impressed with their goal for the company. I don't remember why, but I admitted I was surprised to hear from them due to my lack of relevant work experience. And they basically said they tend to interview those who's CVs make them want to meet that person. More concerned with how the person would fit in with the team etc.

Then one of them mentioned it being full time, and asked if that was ok for me, (not exact words) and I obviously had to be honest, and said basically what I said above, that I've since realised it isn't feasible for me to work full time. I explained that I was unsure if I should go to the interview, and they seemed ok with it. I dare say, one even looked a bit disappointed when I said I couldn't do full time. They asked me what would work for me and I said mon-fri is fine, and that is need to start later and finish earlier. I also said I would be happy to make up ours out of the office by remote working, if that was something that would work for them. They said it was something that they can think about, and it was reasonable that I asked, and I wasn't the only one.

They told me I was their last interview. And that they wanted to get it sorted quickly as they want the current post holder to help train the newbie, that I would know by Friday.

I felt quite positive coming out, which is not something that I ever feel after an interview! It's not necessarily the industry I'm keen on, but they seem like they really care about their staff, and think the better the work environment, the better the business. Which is exactly what I am after. I'm confident I could do the job well ...

I'm gutted that I am probably going to lose out on this job, and I won't be able to not think it's because I need to be at home for my children. Was I wrong to even go to the interview? Is there actually any real chance of me getting this job? Probably not. Do employers pretend to consider reduced hours to save awkwardness? How do I know if they genuinely would consider it? Ugh!!

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SmokedPaprikaHotChilliPowder · 02/09/2021 19:30

*out of the blue! Not plus! Ridiculous.

StrongerThanA90sTrend · 03/09/2021 16:04

Well, I got the job anyway ....

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Gizlotsmum · 03/09/2021 16:09

Congratulations, did they offer the hours you wanted?

Mysterylovingboy · 03/09/2021 16:09

Well done!

I think it's always worth trying. So very few jobs are advertised as being possible for part time/job share/flexi, and sometimes it's simply lack of thought by the hiring manager.

It really annoys me because it holds (mainly) women back. It's easier to get part-time working when you've already worked there a while full-time, but then you get trapped there because hardly any jobs are advertised as part-time, so you can't move and increase your skills/grade/income.

CottonSock · 03/09/2021 16:10

Congratulations. Much better to be honest rather than try your first job that's a stress due to childcare. They will know it works both ways. They help you and you work hard for them as its a good fit. Good luck

DoggyMumma · 03/09/2021 16:14

Congratulations. We always look for full time because of the nature of the role, but it was possibly your availability to do 5 days which made them feel it was a good compromise to get the right person. Well done 👏

StrongerThanA90sTrend · 03/09/2021 18:52

@Gizlotsmum

Congratulations, did they offer the hours you wanted?
Yes! And thank you. Grin
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Gizlotsmum · 03/09/2021 20:48

Amazing well done

jclm · 03/09/2021 20:54

Wonderful news!!!!

AlCalavicci · 03/09/2021 20:59

@SmokedPaprikaHotChilliPowder , so you have never made a typo or had autocorrect get the better of you ?

@StrongerThanA90sTrend
Congratulations ! It can be hard to get your foot on the ladder but you have done it and it sounds like it is a considerate / family orientated company . I hope it goes well for you .

StrongerThanA90sTrend · 04/09/2021 00:03

[quote AlCalavicci]@SmokedPaprikaHotChilliPowder , so you have never made a typo or had autocorrect get the better of you ?

@StrongerThanA90sTrend
Congratulations ! It can be hard to get your foot on the ladder but you have done it and it sounds like it is a considerate / family orientated company . I hope it goes well for you .[/quote]
Thank you so much!

Sorry, the smoked paprika post was also me. Grin name change fail!

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StrongerThanA90sTrend · 04/09/2021 00:05

@DoggyMumma

Congratulations. We always look for full time because of the nature of the role, but it was possibly your availability to do 5 days which made them feel it was a good compromise to get the right person. Well done 👏
Yea, they said they were willing to compromise on the hours as they felt I was the right person for the team. Which has made me feel so good! I'm so pleased.
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AlCalavicci · 04/09/2021 21:01

@StrongerThanA90sTrend Ah I see , it may be a idea to leave your alter ego @SmokedPaprikaHotChilliPowder at home she sounds like a bit of a trouble maker Grin
When do you start you new job ?

Eesha · 16/10/2021 07:13

@StrongerThanA90sTrend I love stories like this. I had a bad experience where similarly felt at ease but explained I couldn't stay super late because of my situation but was happy to make up the hours after work. This was finance. Didn't get the job due to this, and they actually told my agency this. The job went to someone with 10 years less experience. Needless to say I got another role where I have perfect flexibility and work lates from home as and when. They love me and I put in a lot of hard work for them. Everyone is happy!

Moonflower12345 · 16/10/2021 20:25

Congratulations!

I have always had jobs that fitted round school pick ups and always tried to shoe how having that flexibility would work both ways. For example I had one job where I did 10-2 but that meant I was always around to cover the phone at lunch so there were no arguments about who would go when etc. Another one I did 1 day 9-5.30 and 4 x 10-2. Jobs with flexibility are rare so make it work for you! I hope it goes well.

ShopoholicIn · 23/12/2021 04:18

Congratulations OP.. Hope you have a comfortable transition and all the best in your new role

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