I've worked for my current employer for nearly ten years, and for the larger organisation for over twenty years.
I have had regular bouts of quite severe depression since I was a teenager (I'm now in my 50s), and also have a diagnosis of ADD several years ago. This is mostly well controlled with medication and coping strategies that I've learnt over the years. I declared these things as disabilities many years ago.
Unfortunately I have had two periods of a week each off in the last year, and because of our sickness triggers, this has triggered a first written warning. The letter was sent out at the beginning of last week by my boss - to the wrong address. She was alerted to this when the person who had received it rang her to let her know. She then rang me to tell me. It was sent to a house on the same street. She told me which one. I was really taken aback by this, and sort of said, oh that's ok, and she apologised and said she would resend the letter.
The other day, the doorbell went, and it's the guy from down the road who had received the letter. He handed it to me with a smirk, and said he'd been sent my post, and as I thanked him and he was leaving said rather nastily, looks like you'll be losing your job if you're not careful.
I was devastated. In floods of tears. I feel like I'm being judged as some sort of skiver, and I also feel like this has dealt another blow to my mental health, when I felt like things were going really well. Most importantly, after thinking about it, I'm really NOT ok with a letter with such confidential medical information having been sent to the wrong address.
I don't know what to do. My boss made a mistake, then the guy from down the road was an utter cunt about it. But if that mistake hadn't been made, that wouldn't have happened. I'm just so anxious about it. Does anyone have any advice about the best way to deal with this. It's been my day off today, and I've spent most of it in tears worrying about all of this.