Thanks all, some really interesting information here. We are only allowed to carry forward 10 days of unused leave.
After cramming in as much as possible ( we can't take term time) I was still owed 11 days. I can't even have the extra 'one' granted and have lost it.
I have also tried the 'I can meet the deadline for these reports, the other five won't be complete until...'. Honestly it doesn't work. The response is 'the deadline is...'.
My meeting this morning went something like this
LM ' have you had a good weekend?'
Me - no not really, I worked a full day from 7.30 on Saturday
LM ' I didn't want you to do that'
Me ' I have a deadline to meet and a full diary of meetings
LM 'oh'.
And 'haha' what is a lunchtime...if I'm working, virtually meetings are often put across lunch, if I'm out at meetings, then I'm driving between venues.