I have been in my role for 6 months and I am close to all my team bar one person.
This person isn’t really a team player . The rest of us help each other out , but she will ignore messages/ not help out . They will take work/ cases off other people to increase their case load. Sometimes this is very inappropriate . She is also quite rude and doesn’t say hello .She intervenes with other colleagues work and then have a go at them about it .
Anyway I am close with another colleague and thought we were friends but he sticks up for this other person relentlessly and says she has had a hard upbringing and this is why she is the way she is .
Am I being unreasonable to avoid them both ( in particular this work friend ).