I can't decide if i'm being a bit nit picky about our new Au pair.
within the first two weeks you generally know if its going to work out. However we are now a many weeks down the line, she has settled in,and will only do literally what is required.
She thinks it is reasonable to get paid extra for babysitting at weekends. I have never done this with previous Au Pairs, I clearly stated in our agreement that babysitting possible two nights a week ( although this is rare) inclusive of her duties- could be one evening at weekend.
She eats with the family almost every day including most weekends,thankfully she is not a fussy eater, during the week she will help clear up, but at weekends, when it is her time off, she literally just walks away from the table. After spending hours cooking i would have expected a little help clearing up after with DH and older child. I have not said anything as yet.
I have provided her with a mobile phone, but she seemed really disapointed when she realized it was 50p not £50 of credits left. I just put a one off £3.00 credits and thought this was clear. The phone is so we can contact her if a situation arises, and then she can use as she pleases.
On the whole she seems to fit our requirement ( just extra pair of hands I'm at home all day) she is fantastic with the kids, Ironing is great. Generally pleasent and happy She only does a bit of cleaning and this is hit and miss.
I can't decided if she is testing boundries or just just thoughtless
I know each family has different requirements/expectations but i think its human to have gripe when someone is living your house.
i know Au pairs are always discussing families.