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Returning to work after cancer

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user76905421 · 26/03/2021 21:33

I recently returned to work after cancer and since I have been off my departments workload has doubled and become much more stressful.
Im struggling (which I hate to admit) and have asked my manager if I can move to a different department which is less stressful. Slightly lower pay but that doesn't bother me.
Manager has told me that I can't as I am needed in the other department due to staff shortages and how busy it is.
I feel so stressed and upset by it all. I have started looking for new jobs but lack of confidence is holding me back.

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Lucywarlowsrighthand · 26/03/2021 21:43

Have you had chemotherapy? I’ve been told that it will take at least six months to get my energy back to a decent level (obviously it’s different for everyone and I think it often takes a lot longer).
I’m a freelancer so my situation is slightly different, but I’ve been back at work for about six weeks now (finished chemo 3 months ago) and I’ve noticed that I have much less energy - though it comes and goes - but also much less tolerance for bullshit. I’ve lost a long-standing client this week (and good riddance) because we couldn’t find a middle ground between their needs and the fact that I can no longer work 60+-hour weeks. And even more than that, I really don’t want to!

BitOfFun · 26/03/2021 21:45

Your employer needs to make reasonable adjustments for you under the Equality Act. Can you speak to the union?

BitOfFun · 26/03/2021 21:50

I would take a look at some specialist advice from Macmillan too- they know what the drill is.

BackforGood · 26/03/2021 21:59

Have you had an Occupational Health assessment ?
When you have been off work with a long term illness, your employers need to make 'reasonable adjustments' to reintegrate you back into work, and that usually involves a phased return.

keepingmindful · 26/03/2021 22:01

I finished chemo in the February, radiotherapy in June and returned to work in September. Looking back I hadn't had a chance to properly recover and I got really tired and had heads spins etc, plus was still traumatised. I needed to earn however but now I wished I'd played the system a bit more as have since seen people take time off work for much less. Hope it does well for you x

Mollymalone123 · 26/03/2021 22:05

I returned to work a month after chemo and just as I started radiotherapy- I had brain fog for about a year after and v tired quickly for quite a while. I can remember having to pull the car over to have a sleep as it just crept up on me. If you have an HR could they help to make sure you are appropriately supported.I was lucky as I was able to ease back in on shorter hours at first.

user76905421 · 26/03/2021 22:26

I’m on a phased return as advised by OH but my 6 weeks is nearly up. I didn’t need chemo I had rai and I’m on thyroid hormone therapy.
I have been off work for nearly a year and physically I felt ready to go back, mentally not so much but I thought returning would help me recover a bit more mentally.

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