Our company does an annual staff survey through an external company. We are assured repeatedly that it is anonymous and that responses from teams of fewer than five people aren’t counted to ensure anonymity etc etc. You get the picture. We have branches worldwide and are well known in our field. We are a large company.
One of the partners asked if it was me who commented (negatively) on the gender pay gap and then proceeded to mansplain pay parity and pay gap. I was so taken aback, that I said “No, I don’t think that was me”. But it was. And now I’m raging that something we were assured was anonymous isn’t.
I also commented on the institutional sexism and lack of diversity.
My question is, do they KNOW it was me (ie what information does the third party give them) or did they guess correctly? If they know for sure it was me, I am at risk of losing my job. They do not like dissent.