I am an employer.
I'm going to explain this as if we were a cleaning business. We are not, but we work in a similar way.
I have an employee who after 2 years in the job really isn't up to the standard I would expect after this time. I expect he has got a bit bored with the job and would rather do something else. However the job market is as it is so he is still with us.
Generally his work is to an acceptable level, but we have quite strong competition in our field and as a business we strive to be the best. This person often misses things, nothing particularly major, just small things.
So in a cleaning environment, maybe the window sills weren't cleaned or the kitchen drawers wiped out. So nothing massive, but we things that matter to our clients.
I have worked with this person to try and improve their work, and it improves for a while but then he gets worse again. I am the one checking his work.
In the past I have emailed something little like 'thanks for today, please can you note that the drawers in the kitchen weren't wiped out, thanks etc.'
We don't work together as we are out doing our job all day, we don't work from an office.
A few months back he blew up at me saying that he has had enough of my silly little messages picking him up on stuff. If I have a problem with his work I should call him and discuss it personally. Not hide behind an email or text.
I'm always polite in my messages but I can see that the written word can be misconstrued.
I feel that it is very controlling of him to say this to me and that as his boss I should be able to things up so that they don't get missed next time.
If we continually miss things we will lose work and ultimately he will lose his job!!
Is it really wrong of me? Should I really have to call him.
I'm worried that if I don't phone him and things get to the point whereby I need to take disciplinary action this will go against me.
Any advice please?