Hi I am a regular user but I have name changed .
I want to know if there is anything that can be done about my boss ? We have worked together closely for 7 years . It's his fathers business but he runs everything . We developed a close relationship. If he was a women he would of been my best friend . And I was convinced he felt the same way .
A year ago he started showing up randomly to different offices I used to be in . He didn't have to be there . Also if I wasn't there in the morning he would turn up in the afternoon. I told my husband that he had been making me feel on edge for a while because to me he had crossed the line of being friendly . He is also married and with 2 children . Both young twins . Him and his wife are in their early 40s same as me and my husband .
My husband said it was all in my head and that he was just being friendly so I dropped it . We went back to our friendly nature with each other until one day he practically declared his love for me . I had a feeling so said to him I wasn't shocked but the grass is never greener ect ect . Him and his wife had been going through a lot of issues . I do think both of us way over shared problems and personal details about our lives which maybe we shouldn't of but I assume like everyone who works together that's what happens . Or maybe I'm too open who knows .
We used to text quite a bit out of work just general chit chat nothing ever remotely flirty . Then two weeks ago my husband had a text off my bosses wife accusing us of having an affair for months . She had also been texting my phone early hours of the morning pretending to be me. My partner read it and didn't even reply because he knew for a fact that I had not had an affair with him . A few weeks prior to this he told me he had feelings for me . I don't know weather she picked up on a change in him I don't know but that is not my fault .
I have had hell these last few weeks . I am so anxious . I have been put on anxiety tablets . He phoned me saying he needs me to hand my notice in or his wife is going to leave him . He had his father phoning me trying to do the same . I have all the messages from her to my husband his dad to me and also from my boss , I am constantly walking in egg shells because I think if do one thing wrong in this job I will get sacked . He said he will give me a few months to find another job
Also a few days after all this kicking off he followed me to another job I had on because he had to see me one last time ! His words !!! His dad even knows about the situation with him .
I really want to quit but my family and husband told me not too because I have done nothing wrong . I'm looking for some advice also has anyone else been in my shoes? Thankyou