In a primary school, it’s not unheard of to be in school at 7 and not leave until
6.30pm or later if you have parent’s evenings, twilight training, school plays/services, meetings, safeguarding issues etc. You never get to “switch off” from teaching. You go home and you lesson plan, you mark, you make resources, you do reports etc. In your first few years, you will probably be doing this into the early hours of of the morning, then be part of the 5am wide awake club. Seriously, NQTs survive on about 3 hours sleep a night. Then each day you are responsible for 36 children and their academic progress. Yes...there are “school holidays” but again, you will be planning, marking, making etc through them.
Sickness is massively frowned upon in schools. You are expected to show up, even when extremely poorly. I’ve had colleagues in teaching with pleurisy AND a broken leg, pneumonia, no voice at all, kidney infections etc. Our pay progression was always threatened and you’d be treated like shit be parents and SLT. Plus, children are little germ factories and you’ve got 30+ lots of germs aimed at you most days, so you spend September to February constantly battling something and desperately trying to teach through it lest you raise the wrath of SLT and the parents. One of my colleagues tried to kill herself and was in hospital. Within a working week, parents were emailing her to express concern about their children not getting good exam results as she was their GCSE teacher and they were unhappy that they were being taught by a supply teacher.
Then, yes...OFSTED. Having also been involved with CQC when I worked in a cafe home whilst at university, CQC inspections are about 50% less stressful than OFSTED. They last much longer and while, from experience, CQC wanted to work withus and there was a good relationship between the inspector and the home, OFSTED seem to want to catch you out at every turn, expect you to achieve impossible things in zero time, ignore the needs and challenges of individual schools and can be completely devoid of any sense of humanity.
I teach in universities now which I much prefer. School started off great but became hellish and made me ill, both physically and mentally.
The entire rest of my family are doctors, nurses and allied medical professionals. I grew up pretty much in the NHS (different times, my parents could sneak me into their office or ward during holidays and before I started school). My honest advice to you would be to get out of the home you work in and into paediatrics in the NHS. There are SO many options within the NHS and most of my family have ended up on wages that a teacher would never see. If you can’t hack wards and you don’t like working shifts you could try outpatients or community. All the nurses I know, have a much better quality of life than the teachers I know. This wasn’t the same during my parent’s generation pre National Curriculum when primary teachers did genuinely have lovely jobs that were all about the kids and not red tape and box ticking.
As for “patients complain” etc. So do parents. Disciplinaries are common. Teachers get sacked. Schools get sued. It happens.