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Guardsman18 · 29/11/2020 14:04

I am wondering if anyone can throw any light on this situation please and tell me whether this is acceptable or not? How would you feel etc.

A year or so ago a few schoolfriends contacted me for a catch up meal. Talking 50 + years! but we live in the same town and went to the same schools - nursery to secondary Our paths have crossed a little over the years through one thing and another.

Anyway, I was asked if I'd like to do some ad hoc work for the company she works for. I agreed. I wasn't working at the time so I didn't give up another job for this.

Although the job was 'in the bag' I filled out application form, gave references, filled out safeguarding stuff. All good.

The job was a bit of a pain sometimes as I would turn up - person that I was meant to be working with not there, things cancelled. These things happen. When it went well, it was a good experience for us all.

After a few months things start to pick up with more work. Very happy me - unfortunately then bloody Covid came.

Anyway, I haven't heard anything so messaged boss friend to ask if I still had a job as I may need to approach agencies now. The answer I got was very nice but basically as there is no need for me atm, then sorry but good luck! She knows it's a pain going to interviews and that.

Am I being ott to think this is an odd way to work even if someone is a friend and working on an ad hoc basis?

I will have to ask her for a reference at some point and am just wondering if perhaps I was just crap. I did have some good feed back so hopefully it's not that. I can be honest with her but just wanted an outsider's perspective before I say anything.

Thanks

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foxyroxyyy · 29/11/2020 14:38

Double check with her.... otherwise yes, it's a bit shit.

Hayeahnobut · 29/11/2020 14:42

Don't take it personally, it's how zero hours contracts work. It's not you that is crap, it's the at will hire and fire system that is.

Guardsman18 · 29/11/2020 17:56

Thank you for replies. Double check what @foxyroxyyy?

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Doyoumind · 29/11/2020 18:00

How were you being paid? Through PAYE payroll? If not, then you weren't employed as such and you were just freelancing surely.

Guardsman18 · 29/11/2020 18:06

Through PAYE payroll. I am/was employed

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Guardsman18 · 29/11/2020 18:19

You are probably right @Hayeahnobut but a phone call would be... well courteous maybe.

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Orangeboots · 29/11/2020 18:47

@Guardsman18

You are probably right *@Hayeahnobut* but a phone call would be... well courteous maybe.
I agree a phone call would have been good manners but in general I have found people do not like delivering bad news, so they take the cowardly and lazy option and say nothing. Not your job to correct their bad behaviour - get a reference and move on. I really hope you find someone better to work for, good luck!
foxyroxyyy · 29/11/2020 18:55

Sorry, I meant double check she wasn't unhappy with your performance

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