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Sunisshining12 · 12/11/2020 14:18

I'm really worried about my DU (Uncle). He's 58, been a mechanic all his life working in small backstreet garages. Never earned much (£12ph was his top pay). Stupidly never saved or paid into any pension schemes. Still has a small mortgage.

He was made redundant 12 months ago (no redundancy pay as he was a contractor) He then went self-employed, did a few jobs but Covid came along...no work, no income, no help from Gov as he was newly SE. Since then, he's been spiralling into a black hole. He has no job, no premises to work from, no money in the bank and is really down about his life and what to do.

We suspect he had Covid early this year as he spent a few weeks in bed with a cough & the symptoms. Or it may have been flu. He hasn't been right since. He's really aged and just doesn't have the stamina that he used to. He said he just physically can't do that job anymore, especially with the targets you have to meet for booking in hours, the cold, the dust & the physical demands of the job. His age a contributory factor too.

I've told him to look into retraining or exploring other job options, but I think he's totally lost & can't get going. He says no one will want him as he's too old & has no qualifications.

He's been a mechanic since he was 15...never been UE & that's all he knows. He said he has absolutely no interest in the car industry anymore as it's changed so much over the years & physically he can't keep up anymore.

I want to help him because he's sinking. He's got another 10 years of working before he could even consider retiring (and that will be state pension). Where do I even begin? Is there any hope for him?

He's a very confident, chatty, helpful & intelligent person. He's great at problem solving & a perfectionist (I know that sounds cliche). He's a type A personality.

Can anyone point me in the right direction please?

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tinofshortbread · 12/11/2020 19:26

College lecturer in mechanics?

He may have to do a couple of qualifications, but they usually like to recruit older people with industry experience

Sunisshining12 · 12/11/2020 22:15

@tinofshortbread - thanks for much for replying! I actually hadn’t even thought of that, but he would be great.

Any idea what qualifications would be best? He doesn’t have any. He did an apprenticeship when he was 16. Thanks

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tinofshortbread · 12/11/2020 23:41

I'm in Scotland, so the relevant qualifications might not be the same in the rest of the UK, but you would need Assessor Awards (colleges will often sponsor a new lecturer through them, they are kind of learn on the job qualifications).

TQFE (teaching qualification in further education) is highly desirable. Thats usually a 1 year FT/2 year PT university based course.

They also usually also ask for basic english and maths qualifications.

kleanex · 13/11/2020 11:31

B&Q are keen to employ older people with practical experience.

AeroFlakeTw1rl · 13/11/2020 14:31

Would suggest that he applys for universal credit. Even if he doesn't receive any money, he should get his National Insurance paid, which would contribute to his state pension. He may get some training opportunities

Apply www.gov.uk

AeroFlakeTw1rl · 13/11/2020 14:32

What about a driving job ?

Sunisshining12 · 13/11/2020 20:45

Great, am keeping a note of all this stuff :-)

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Babyroobs · 14/11/2020 15:04

If he has no income then he needs to apply for Universal credit. If his health means he's unfit for work then he needs to submit sick notes to universal credit or they may expect him to do job searching. They can help with updating his CV, accessing courses to make him more employable etc. There's no doubt it's very hard for people in this age bracket to secure new work though.

Sunisshining12 · 17/11/2020 19:26

Thanks all - he applied for UC but won’t physically get any payment (His partner works 16 hours)

I had a good chat with him & gave him your suggestions, which seem to have motivated him. I think he has lost so much confidence this year, hope it doesn’t affect him long term

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Gemma2019 · 17/11/2020 19:31

How about working for the AA or RAC or that sort of organisation?

Or he could train to be an MOT tester?

www.gov.uk/become-an-mot-tester/eligibility

MrsTwitcher · 17/11/2020 19:31

Would he be interested in something like online delivery driver or working for the pist office. These places are very busy at this time of year and even if its only seasonal it would give him some money, meet new people and get out a bit. Whereabouts does he live. We might be able to help.

M1ne0verMatter · 17/11/2020 23:45

Job at hospital or council ?

State retirement age is currently 66

Can his wife or partner get him a job where they work ?

Sunisshining12 · 18/11/2020 16:27

@M1ne0verMatter

Job at hospital or council ?

State retirement age is currently 66

Can his wife or partner get him a job where they work ?

Yes, he has another 10 years before state retirement.

I was hoping to give him suggestions that are less ‘physically’ seens as he’s not getting any younger. Physical work doesn’t come as easy to him as it used to.

Driving jobS & post office jobs are good shouts. So is tutoring.

His Partner only works part time as she also looks after their grandchildren & no she can’t get him a job where she works

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