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How do you know new job is not for you?

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c1JSU · 01/08/2020 08:09

Hi all, I’ve been in my new role for I think coming up to 6 weeks. Some of you may remember my post about my concerns re my cv making me look better than I am!

Anyway 5/6 weeks in and I don’t think it’s for me. I’ve made friends there so that’s not an issue but every morning I get the dreaded sick feeling in my stomach. If I was offered a job tomorrow elsewhere I know I would 100% leave. But how long should I give it? I guess it’s still early days but I definitely don’t recall feeling like this in my previous job. It’s an office administrator role but in a completely different field to my previous position.

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JaJaDingDong · 01/08/2020 08:34

IMO, making an honest mistake and leaving quickly looks better on your CV than leaving between six to twelve months on.

Ohfrigginghellers · 01/08/2020 08:37

Sometimes you just know don't you? I don't really know what to suggest though. It's not exactly a great time to be looking for a new job.

poorbuthappy · 01/08/2020 08:45

I usually know the first day to be honest. There's usually an off hand comment from someone in senior management which makes my spider sense tingle.
I am also usually of the opinion that I have to enjoy my work so as a result have had a fair few jobs over the years. Now I'm trying to let everything go over my head and not stress about stuff. It's hard. 😬

poppet31 · 01/08/2020 09:41

I think I knew by the end of the week one that one of my jobs wasn't for me. I lasted 6 months. Someone once told me it's better to stay 6 months at a job as it looks better on your CV but I'm not sure that's true now. I did get asked about it at interview for my next job and had to be honest and said I'd made a mistake taking the previous job. I remember that sinking feeling every morning and the horrible Sunday night dread. In my opinion, if it's making you feel that bad, it's not for you.

SnuggyBuggy · 01/08/2020 09:45

In hindsight I knew within a week of my last job but did stick it out longer.

Is it likely things will seem better once you find your feet or does it just feel wrong?

Purplewithred · 01/08/2020 09:45

Do you have a probationary period? These work both ways and leaving at the end of probation having realised it wasn't the job for you is relatively professional.

GreyGardens88 · 01/08/2020 09:48

Not been happy in any of my previous jobs covering the last 4 years, but always try to stick it out at least a year

BittersweetMemories · 01/08/2020 09:56

I knew my first day but by week 11 when I thought a out driving my car into a brick wall at speed on the commute home, I told them I wasn't coming back the next day. Not the most proffesional I will admit however I wasn't sleeping, eating, being sick from anxiety all the time and constantly shaking.

In my interview for my current position I was honest and said it wasn't the right place for me and the role wasn't a good fit.

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c1JSU · 01/08/2020 11:10

Thank you for replies. So situation is I am a temp to perm staff member, given 12 weeks work and then we will have a discussion about whether or not I stay on. However the agency I am employed through have already come back to me and told me they want to keep me on and will be offering me a permanent position when the time comes. I suppose in theory as I am only temporary I could just jack it in tomorrow, but it’s not really wise given the current situation. I am however still on the payroll of my previous employer (well furlough) and they are keeping me on until the end but have informed me I will then be made redundant. So I will have 80% of my income until October but then of course I will need employment again. I find myself in a bit of a dilemma. Stay on in a job I’m pretty sure isn’t for me, or leave and seek employment at a time when there are not many job Openings!

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poorbuthappy · 01/08/2020 15:58

Are you allowed to work elsewhere whilst furloughed?

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c1JSU · 01/08/2020 16:23

As long as there is nothing in your contract that prohibits it and your employer agrees. You can’t do work for the employer that has furloughed you though

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WeAllHaveWings · 01/08/2020 17:02

Last time I moved into a completely different role it took a good 6 months to settle in with the job and feel confident.

6 weeks is nothing if the job is outside your comfort zone. If don't like the job then look for something else, but if it is a confidence issue I would keep your line manager up to date with how your are feeling, ask for any support you need, ask for feedback and give it more time.

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