I did ask this question recently.Here is the backstory.I've worked for over 35 years in the same industry.I have loved it and prioritized my job above everything.It is unsociable hours so I have to book one days holiday a month to see dh.
The industry also has a high turnover rate and I have done over a decade when two years would be the norm.My current role I have had for 3 years.I loved it to start with them the people my age left and I work with colleagues who are all younger than my dc and male.I do my best but it can be one sided conversations.
While I was on furlough I loved seeing dh.I am mid 50s and he is quite a bit older than me.
I had meals at mealtimes and more than 2 hours between getting home and into bed.
I have seen a more suitable localish job with better hours which I am applying for.Also I have some fairly good savings due to my 55 hour weeks and no time to ever go out as I get home 1030.
I can barely think of returning to my old job now I've had time away.Am I crazy?I know I'm lucky to have work tbh .The thought of my old job is making me anxious.Help!