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Flowerybeanbag - Thanks for asking [smile] !

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chocolatekimmy · 25/09/2007 20:17

Flowery - Hi, thanks for asking how its going, I thought I would start a new one here!

Job great, I can see myself being there for a long time. Love the environment, all very interesting. Lots of key things to focus on right now, talk about in at the deep end but there is massive scope for improvement so gaining brownie points already for some really quick fixes. Basically I have a team who are hardworking and dedicated and just want to do a good job but they need to modernise and streamline processes and upskill in certain areas.

Being full time isn't half as bad as I expected. I am making such an effort with the children from the time I get home that I think we are all happier. Weekends are better too.

In fact, overall I am so glad I have done it - I needed to get out of that rut and I can see that though it isn't a perfect situation for the children in some ways, its good enough for all of us and better in fact in other ways.

I had the most stupid response from my previous Company under the modified procedure. It was bitchy, unprofessional and in fact attacking. Lots of sly digs and unfair comments. To summarise, it was my fault my work load increased because I had the audacity to request part time hours and was granted it. My boss had done nothing wrong whatsoever and there were no non compliance issues at all - all this despite 60 pages of credible documentary evidence from me! Looks as though the HRM that I complained about put it together!

But hey ho, I am in fighting spirit so they haven't heard the last of me yet. The stress is gone now, I feel great and this new job has been a massive confidence boost. My boss is fab, FCIPD, very credible and involving me in things for development purposes - how refreshing.

Hope all is ok with you.

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flowerybeanbag · 25/09/2007 20:38

hiya

That's fantastic, sounds really good. You've got to love those quick fixes haven't you, for instant sense of achievement and brownie points! Sounds like a good team as well, if they're keen and interested that's more than half the battle won, and a fab boss as well, who could ask for more?!
I'm glad you aren't finding going fulltime too tough - I know it was a decision which was kind of made for you so it's good it seems to be workable and benefitting you all in some ways as well. I suppose if your weekends are your quality time you probably appreciate them more and make more of an effort, so as you say, that's a good side for everyone.

Rofl at response from your previous employers, how dare you request p/t working and be granted it! Must be great to be able to deal with it with less stress now you are enjoying your new job, so hopefully it will get sorted fairly quickly.

Things here good, starting to think about doing some paid work now, DS is nearly 5 months, so I'm going to start working on getting some new clients. I knew it was time when DH told me to 'stop working' when I was on here the other day....

talky · 27/09/2007 09:02

Flowery. Tell hubbie that you've helped lots of very desperate mums. Who knows what would have happened to us all. Your advice is always sound. Make sure you gat some high fee earning clients now! You obviously enjoy your job, so go for it.

flowerybeanbag · 27/09/2007 09:15

thanks talky!

chocolatekimmy · 27/09/2007 21:11

Talky - hear, hear

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flowerybeanbag · 27/09/2007 23:18

To be fair to my lovely DH, he is very happy for me to be on here helping people (except when it encroaches on our evening ), however when he refers to it as my 'work' it does make me think that as I am clearly finding the time to do so much work for free, maybe it is time to expend some of that energy and time contributing to the family income as well....

Will of course still be here as well though

mamasin · 05/10/2007 10:41

Yes, to echo the many mums who are in debt to you, thank you, thank you!
Hope you are amply rewarded in all you do...

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