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Having to issue my first 'dressing down'

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YellowHighHeels · 29/02/2020 16:36

Hi everyone, hoping for some line management advice please! I know this is going to sound like a pathetic thing to ask but I want to get it right.

I am a middle manager in the public sector (very new to this dept) and have been lucky in that I have never really had to pull anyone up firmly before. But now I do.

This isn't a disciplinary or anything, I just need this person to improve substantially and to be aware of the issues in good time to do so before their appraisal. She is on a short term contract which may not be renewed if my LM does not see an improvement so her carrying on regardless is not really an option.

I manage this one lady (my job is more policy than running a team) who does my team's admin and helps with the business side. She is a lovely person and I want to help her develop.

However, there are several issues relating to her completion of tasks, communication and quality of work.

I recognise that I need to take action, such as checking and mapping progress more regularly but hers is a junior management grade so some autonomy and proactivity is expected.

She has been on the team about a year. I have been there 5 weeks but my LM highlighted the issues to me when I started.

I have tried to help her to improve day to day, with training, putting processes and tools in place and assuring her she is more than welcome to ask if unsure what to do. But it hasn't really worked. Even when I have raised issues in the context of mistakes she has made, she just blithely agrees to everything I say and does not improve so i need to do this a bit more firmly and formally.

I will discuss this with my manager before we talk but wanted to see whether the conversation should go as follows (shit sandwich approach) or whether anyone has better ideas:

Ask generally how she is doing.
Say I would like to raise some areas for improvement
Acknowledge her work in one or 2 areas.
Ask what, if any, issues or difficulties she feels she is finding with the job
Outline the 4 main points I want her to improve on, with examples of this affecting her work
Discuss ways to improve
Thank her for the good points she is bringing to the team
assure her that her mistakes so far are not the end of the world but could cause issues (operationally) if improvements are not made.
Check if she understands everything
Follow up with an email briefly spelling out the points raised.

Also, one of the problems is that her correspondence is fairly sloppy and unprofessional. She has been working in admin for many, many years now and I am a bit unsure how to get her to improve this!

It isn't really formatting or using unprofessional language, more that she writes in a stream of consciousness that is quite hard to understand but makes perfect sense to her. Therefore I'm not sure if a training course would help (if there is one). Any ideas on how to approach this, please?!

Many thanks in advance for any advice!

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KatherineJaneway · 03/03/2020 07:15

Its awful when you don't get timely feedback.

Maybe you could acknowledge that she hasn't had proper line management and gently say that now you are in role you would like to work on her personal development as you know that support has been lacking.

TheLongDarkBreakfastTime · 03/03/2020 09:38

I definitely wouldn’t say I’d give the next few months more weight as that will be against HR policies etc, but instead talk about her trajectory being really important.

As in, if you can see she’s on an upward trajectory, learning and improving, taking on board feedback etc but not quite there yet in terms of performance, that’s a completely different situation to if she’s just continuing as she has done for the rest of the year with no change. And that would be reflected in appraisal and contract discussions.

YellowHighHeels · 04/03/2020 18:29

Meeting today went really well! She took everything constructively.

I honestly don't know if she grasped my points or just agreed with everything but I have sent her a detailed email with timed actions and asked her to agree in writing. So if she makes no improvements, I feel that is on her. I have put in place some more training and feel massively relieved and better. I would hate her to not at least have chance to improve.

I got her to dive a bit into why she does the echoing thing and is so keen to sound competent without worrying about the follow through. Seems she had a very academic sibling and always felt like the non-brainy one so feels insecure if she doesn't know or understand things. I suppose pretending will carry you so far but it must chip away at your esteem.

I now feel sorry for any manager who has had to pull me up over the years (not so many thankfully!). It's not a nice thing to have to do.

Thank you so much for all of your replies and input. You really all helped to shape that into a firm but positive thing

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YellowHighHeels · 04/03/2020 18:36

I mean, I drew her out her as much as I could on why problems were happening but a lot of it was face saving stuff like 'I must have been rushing' and I didnt want to twist the screws too much at this stage. At least she didn't resign!

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