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New job on sick leave

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wowbutter · 12/02/2020 19:58

I am currently signed off, I have a chronic pain condition and stress makes it flare, so the note, ten weeks now says "pain and mental health issues" and I am due back March 1st on a phased return.
I've had so much support in the time I've been off, from gp, specialists etc. But as I'm feeling better, I realised I cannot return to my role. It's too much pressure, responsibility etc.
I applied for a job within my company on Monday, interviewed and was offered today. All a bit whirlwind the departments don't talk to one another, or even in the same location etc. Multi academy trust.
It's a big pay reduction, less direct responsibility, going from project management to associate on another project.
I have real self esteem issues and confidence issues now, and I am literally shaking at the thought of telling my boss. I appreciate it might be my anxiety head thinking, but have I done something awful?
In my head it's the most logical solution because I cannot return to my role. I'd end up signed off again. It's within the same company so they stop paying me sick pay and start making money. But I've had a complete panic thinking I've done something illegal and I'm going to be sacked.

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flowery · 12/02/2020 20:02

Why would the employer which has just offered you a transfer to a different job sack you for applying for it in the first place?

See? Nothing to worry about. I would think this is an excellent solution all round.

wowbutter · 12/02/2020 20:03

I have no idea, I'm not thinking clearly, I'm just in utter panic. I appreciate it's because I'm still not 100% mentally just yet.
I feel disloyal to my current team, and manager. And like I've been sneaky and underhand.

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flowery · 12/02/2020 22:52

I’m not going to pretend there’s no chance your manager will think you disloyal. A good manager absolutely would not. A good manager would be very supportive. A sensible pragmatic manager would also think this was a good thing.

But even if your manager isn’t a good one, he/she won’t be able to do anything.

Best of luck with the job Smile

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