Please help....
I accepted an internal promotion in August. Now in a manager role, but paperwork never came through... my manager stated that they were chasing and chasing.
Fast forward a couple of months and I'm currently signed off with stress at work, after working 50 hours weeks and travelling a lot for training, not ideal as a single parent. A company that has been trying to get me working for them for the last two years have offered me a position with them that is incredibly flexible and while less pay I'm inclined to take it for the sake of my mental health. However I haven't signed a contract so no idea if I will default to my previous one with one months notice or whether they can enforce the terms I haven't yet signed of three months notice because I am in the role, on a new rate of pay and was told verbally that my notice period is three months?
To top that off the business is under review and it is looking highly likely the team I'm on/managing will be disbanded due to recruitment issues and there is a very high risk of redundancy within the business anyway.
My manager is keen to catch up with me tomorrow which I don't really feel comfortable with as its just making my current anxiety worse. My team are continuing to contact me while I'm signed off to advise they have handed their notice in etc despite my numerous requests for them not to contact me on my personal phone!
I'm rambling... so my question is, can they enforce me to work my notice period of three months or will I default to previously signed terms of one month? Can I hand my notice in while I am signed off? I feel awful doing this and like I should go back but I'm not 100% ready to. I also to a degree feel a bit guilty because of the people leaving the team if I then leave it's even more likely that my team will face the chop as with half a team and no manager it isn't viable and then I'll feel bad for those that are left facing losing their jobs.