Hi there, I hope that the collective experience of Mumsnet might be able to advise me on this.
During a first grievance meeting, is it allowed for an employer to ask a very senior and very heavyweight external HR consultant to attend the meeting (under the guise of note taking). It seems that the employer then has the benefit of a senior and trained HR professional to witness the entire meeting and the provide them with subsequent specialist advice, whereas the employee only has the benefit of an inexpert colleague (not part of a trade union so cannot have a rep attend).
Should I be querying their choice of 'note taker' by suggesting it is potentially unfair and prejudicial bearing in mind her expertise beyond note taking.
Any advice gratefully accepted! Thanks 