I'm thinking of applying to work for the NHS as a Band 3 worker but I'm worried about the christmas holidays. We've had a recent family bereavement and I need to be home with my mother to make sure she is ok over Christmas. I also know I'll need her support as Christmas will be difficult for me as well. But I live in another city and I don't drive so I would need at least three days off, assuming two for traveling and I have no idea if that would be possible and I know beggars can't be choosers but I'm worried about my mothers mental health and if I'm not there she'd be alone.