Hello everyone, hope you are all well.
So I have a query that I'd like to seek advice for. It's pretty confusing and lengthy but I'd like to know if anyone has experienced something similar or has advice they can offer.
I work in a primary school as an Early Years Practitioner. I had a set of twins and was on mat leave for a full year. I was meant to return to work in Jan 19. I was on sick leave until March 19. I went through post natal psychosis and wasn't allowed to return to work and had a sick note. I was then issued a maybe fit to note work as long as I worked less days as my employer refused my request for flexible hours( part time hours). The school didn't allow me back yet and had constant reports sent between occupational health and my psychiatrist. Since March my psychiatrist has said I am fit to work and even then my school kept asking questions like am I fit to work with children etc. The reports not once stated I am not fit to work or that I have to be supervised but yet the school keep claiming I am not fit to work. They now have said they will offer me a settlement rather than harshly sacking me. The reason behind this is because they said I have safeguarding issues which I will explain.
During my maternity leave I spoke to my schools child protection officer. My son also goes to the school I work in and wanted to seek some advice and disclosed some information like I wanted to drown my twins when they were born. I know it's very harsh to hear that but I was having a psychotic episode. Anyhow I told her several times I am speaking as a parent of my son not as a staff. She told my employer (the school). Surely if she had concerns she could have contacted my social worker who was fully aware of everything. The school then used what she said in a report to Occupatinal health.
So what id like to know is do I have any rights? And did the school breach confidentiality in terms of the conversation I had with the child protection officer. Even if she had concerns of me as an employer she could have told the school that I am experiencing some thoughts and I should be reviewed by occupational health. Surely if I was working in another school and told her then she wouldn't call my employer to tell them?
I am with a union who have agreed I can decide which way I want to go about things. I would have accepted a settlement but I am not willing to be judged on my episode of maniac I had and then be told I have safeguarding issues. The craziest part is they even said to me they will give me settlement alongside a glowing reference. How does that even make sense, they say I'm not fit to work with children but then we will offer you a good reference to go work in another school. I feel like I am being discriminated.
P.s in all the occupational health reports they haven't mentioned during my episode I had thoughts of harming the children so the only way the school could have come up with the idea that I have safeguarding concerns is because of the child protection officer who shared what I spoke about without my consent. And for anyone wondering I have gotten much better and have come a long way.