The cut a long story short, im the only female in my team and feel that my male colleague who is at a lower level and less experienced than me may be earning more. He is constantly getting pay rises. Whenever I ask for a pay review I get told that the company hasn’t done well etc so they cant give me anything despite all my appraisals being glowing!
A couple of years ago, after being fed this same line and given a small token gesture, I found out that he’d been given double what I had. When I brought it up with my line manager he told me told me that we shouldn’t have been discussing salary as its not allowed.
Im pretty sure he was wrong about this but it put me and my colleague off discussing things again. My colleague is now leaving and I want to ask him what he was earning. We are very good friends so I know he will happily tell me, but I want to know we can legally discuss it.
So... can I ask him?