I have an awful headache, I feel sick and I've hardly slept, my heart has been pounding.
I'm not ill, the reason I feel like this is because I've been stressing all night about the week ahead at work. I've had huge problems with an overwhelming workload and ever increasing demands at work recently, which I have already tried to address with my manager but no practical action has been taken to help me except an understanding nod and a listening ear.
I know this particular week is going to be horrendous and I am already anticipating that it may send me over the edge.
I feel awful, and I feel I need a couple of days off work to just get my head straight. Should I tell them it's due to stress or would you just say its a bug for the sake of a few days? I know provisions are better the week after and my diary isn't as packed, I don't feel it's so bad I need more than a few days, but I can't go to work like this.
My manager is understanding but I don't want to have to be pushed to go to the doctor or for everyone else to know (team gossip spreads whether it's confidential or not).
Should I be honest or should I just make up a virus / illness to have the days I need?