I have a very small limited company. We send entertainers to corporate events all over the UK. Think along the lines of magicians and bands. Generally, we make the arrangements with the clients by email and phone. It's all very predictable (start time, end time, address of venue etc.). Occasionally (maybe every 2 weeks), a client says they'd like a meeting to discuss the details, which is a massive PITA, as it's usually in London and requires a 90-120min train journey each way from me (I work from home), plus the 30-60 minutes of the meeting, so I could lose 5 hours (and have to book wrap-around care for my child). I try to work on the train, but it's not always possible.
Is charging for (or politely threatening to charge for so it'll put them off having) the meeting dickish?
To avoid drip-feeding:
We don't charge per hour for anything - we have flat fees.
At the point when the client asks for the meeting, we've almost always got a contract and agreed a price for the entertainment. I'm happy to go to London to win a potential client over, but I do think having a face-to-face conversation once the event has been booked is a massive waste of time.
I don't want to preemptively mention meetings, even if it's to warn of possible costs, at the enquiry stage as this may encourage more clients to ask for them.
I have about 200-300 bookings a year, mostly for clients who have 1 event a year. If I had a meeting about each event, I wouldn't be able to do any actual work, so it's not possible (or necessary) to include a meeting in the package.
I'm very responsive on email and phone, and have Skype etc.