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DH and work issues

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LunaLovesgood · 18/02/2019 16:03

DH and I have been googling and discussing this a lot and I thought you guys might have some sound advice since I posted (under a different name) a while back about my own work dilemma and got some really solid replies.

In a nut shell, he was internally promoted 6 months back to head a large department. This came from the directors (the job was not advertised and they broached the subject with him when the vacancy came available). Since them the directors and other Heads of Departments have been purposefully excluding him from management meeting, have been interfering and bad mouthing him to the other staff in public and have been steamrollering any and all attempts by him to improve staff moral on the shop floor and quality/efficiency of the production.

Despite several meetings with the Directors and CEO instigated by him, things are not changing they are, just for the worse. I've had him bring home the policies in place but to be honest they're pitiful. They're all crammed in together in a 20 page "staff handbook" which references the HR department for everyrhing. There is no HR department.

In all honestly, where would you advise he goes from here? He's trying so hard to stay positive but his spark has gone and it's heart breaking to see him like this.

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LunaLovesgood · 18/02/2019 16:04

I swear there were paragraphs when I wrote it!

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flowery · 18/02/2019 19:51

So he was appointed by directors who are now undermining him?

Does he have any idea why this is happening?

What does he want to achieve?

Middlrm · 18/02/2019 19:55

Email them when excluded asking them to cc in in meetings / create an audit trail and document everything this way .... let them dig their own hole if they go against their own 20 page handbook and no win no fee lawyer would eat them up.

Other option confront them again via email about what’s going on / organise a meeting. They may just be unable to organise anything and it’s not personal

daisychain01 · 18/02/2019 21:03

.... let them dig their own hole if they go against their own 20 page handbook and no win no fee lawyer would eat them up

There's no basis for this, from the brief information given. The directors haven't necessarily broken any employment law or breached the DHs contract of employment. Whilst it seems unpleasant and frustrating for them to exclude him from meetings, the next step should be to call them on their behaviour by questioning (by email may be a good idea to create an audit trail) why he was not invited.

We don't have the full story about why they've suddenly turned on him, after having promoted him some months ago. Seems strange.

LunaLovesgood · 18/02/2019 21:30

You're right, it is very strange. I can't really wrap my head around it as I'm used to working in organisations with real structure and a great atmosphere. We've been talking about it tonight and he's admitted he already has a trail of emails which he has sent to his personal account. There's also a meeting that has been organised for tomorrow.

The problem I have with it all is that he comes home and tells me about these meetings (tomorrow's is the third one since Christmas) and it just seems so full of empty promises. The industry is very much an old boys network and I do think that being 30+ years younger than a large portion of those around him isn't helping..

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LunaLovesgood · 18/02/2019 21:31

I have told him I will 100% support any discision he makes if he decides to leave.

I just want the happy go lucky man he is back.

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MaverickSnoopy · 19/02/2019 06:45

It reads like the directors want his department to do badly...

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