Last summer I set a tribunal claim against my former (part time) employer.
It all started with a "non disciplinary" meeting where I refused to resign
so was dismissed on "SOSR" on the spot
which by the time of my appeal had turned into "gross misconduct"
The other side have offered a settlement amount (less than my loss)
and I'm really struggling mentally
Will the fact that ALL of their statements, claims, allegations post date my dismissal
count in my favour if I push on through to the tribunal ?
I faced no disciplinary at all before the day I was fired
They have lodged a claim for costs against me
and I know I cannot afford to pay if I lose
but I know I'm in the right
its scary