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Is it appropriate to ask to be reconsidered for a job that I turned down?

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windygallows · 17/01/2019 14:18

I recently turned down a role as thought it best to stick with the safety of my current role - employers v much wanted me to stay.

It's not sit well and I think I made the wrong decision. I know the post is vacant/not filled and the employers are reconsidering what to do with the role (discovered this via the headhunter). It's a senior post.

Would it be inappropriate to see if it's possible to start a conversation with a view to see if they would reconsider me for the role - or do you think they would have moved on?

They were pretty upset I turned down the role as they really seemed to want me for the role and they went through a lengthy recruitment process. I can, however, see that they might no longer be warm to me and might also think I wasn't 100% committed by turning down the role, IYSWIM. I would probably think the same. On the other hand they decided I was the best candidate for the role after 3 interviews and appointing me would save them the laborious process of recruiting all over (it was a national search).

I was thinking of approaching the Headhunter in the first instance but would be grateful for thoughts on what you think is appropriate and what you would do.

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greendale17 · 03/03/2019 20:03

The headhunter said they were v disappointed that I'd turned the job down and have no interest in considering me again.

^Can’t say I blame them

windygallows · 03/03/2019 20:40

No need to be so mean about it greendale - people turn down roles for lots of reasons!

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Nonotmenori · 03/03/2019 20:54

Wow I think you've dodged a bullet there OP. If they can take that so personally imagine what else they would.

JuniperGins · 03/03/2019 21:08

I’d agree with the dodged a bullet comment.

I had a job where they upped the salary by 20k after I said no, called me 3 times to reconsider and I stuck to no.

She now three years on still has the hump when I see her professionally, plus as I guessed she was trying to recruit me for a roll that was about to change majorly and acquire more responsibilities when I wanted to actually step down. She would have had a paddy at some point, and I’m glad she’s not my boss when she did take against me. The environment was way too intense

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