Hi all,
I am having a lot of conflict with my boss at the moment. I have 14 years highly relevant experience and have always received good performance reviews etc but before I went on maternity leave I was informed they were moving someone from a different department into my role on a permanent basis (illegal I know) she is two grades more senior than me but actually only marginally better paid because I always scored well in performance reviews and recurved top pay rises. I actually didn't make a fuss before I went on maternity leave because the environment was toxic and I just wanted out...... fast forward 12 months and I come back to a totally different role in a much more strategic team, which to be honest I don't mind. However I am under qualified in this role and a bit out of my depth. I have become resentful of the person who replaced me permanently because the people she manages (and I used to manage) tell me how lazy she is eg she logs into work on time but then goes to the gym for 2 hours. She works from home one day a week and only does work if the boss is cc'ed in. She is one of those really annoying political people who brown noses senior management and they think she is great but she isn't a grafter. I feel like she gloats that she is more senior than me although she has no idea how well I am paid.... I keep that one in my back pocket.... also it has become apparent that I have a long way to develop to the next grade in this new role (there are other people in the team with more relevant experience who will get promoted before me-which I appreciate is justified).
I spoke to my boss when I was back 12 weeks and said I felt discriminated due to my redeployment. I asked what he could do to sort it and he said basically nothing. I have been given a job at the grade I was and it is like it or lump it. It all got heated and I pointed out they had behaved illegally in relation to my maternity and if it went to court it would be an open shut case. He said I was manipulative and if I wanted my d dead end job back he would get it back for me. We had some further meetings that were more professional and he said he would try and look at my grade in January. When we met for my performance review in December he seems to not remember saying he would look at my grade so I am back to square one!
My boss says I am being unreasonable to expect the same grade as the person who permanently backfilled my maternity leave, what do you think? He makes me feel about 2 inches tall every time I meet him about this topic (not at all on other topics he is a near perfect boss) but I am struggling emotionally to go back to work tomorrow