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Take sick leave or resign?

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merrykate · 11/12/2018 16:01

I have worked for my current employer for 11 years with an excellent track record. I returned to work 6 months ago after having some time off for MH issues and personal circumstances. Returned to a new role with different managers who I believe are bullies and are trying to force me to resign. My union rep has suggested I ask to resign with three months pay or choose to go off sick due to work stress and take up to 6 months off then resign. What would you do?

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Mich0027 · 11/12/2018 16:06

I wouldn't listen you my Union rep to be honest! Deal with the issues at work. Have you spoken to the managers or HR?

Alfie190 · 11/12/2018 16:07

I would not want to damage my work history with extended levels of leave unless I absolutely had to. So I would resign if the situation was untenable.

I am not saying it never happens, but as a manager myself, I honestly can say, I don't think it is part of management to go around trying to make people resign.

babysharkah · 11/12/2018 16:08

Do you want to resign? Seems like odd advice unless you are considering resigning to preempt being sacked.

What is your performance like not including periods of sick?

ChristmasFlary · 11/12/2018 16:10

And what does your union rep gain by you resigning? I find this very strange advise as the first action should be to resolve issues.

daisychain01 · 11/12/2018 18:57

Get your Union rep to help you formulate a grievance statement to submit either to your manager or via HR.

Don't resign. Keep your employment intact until your employer plays their hand, ie if they put you on a performance improvement plan or try to force you out. Don't let them make you resign, you'd be giving them the easy way out!

ADastardlyThing · 11/12/2018 19:04

Err don't listen to union rep, don't they realise how blatant that would look? Raise a grievance and force them through the process.

PrincessDando · 12/12/2018 18:58

Why will your employer give you 3 months pay if you resign? What's in it for them? Are you on 3 months notice? Usually notice is worked, not paid.

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