I’m inexperienced in management and have a poor sense of what’s ok personally so trying to figure things out.
We recruited an assistant to train up and hopefully grow within the role while training externally which the business pays for. I’m also studying but am qualified by experience/proving I’m capable.
The assistant is great at taking the routine and easy work but needs a fair bit of reminding and guidance for new tasks. This has been doable but now the role needs to expand and to step up in responsibility. This was always the plan as my role needs to change too.
However there’s a problem with not checking things with colleagues leading to some errors, alongside errors from general lack of attention to detail - but we all make mistakes so I let it slide. When previously tackled this was claimed to be due to anxiety/shyness. I have similar issues so shared some personal info and suggested some options to help tackle this, funding for courses etc. They ignored this offer.
I’ve now found out about a few more errors and when tackled they claim the anxiety thing is absolutely not an issue and never was the issue. They now claim it’s just them wanting to be independent, complete work very quickly and now realising they can’t do that.
The problem is I can’t take on new work, to develop my own career, while I’m still careful checking their work and hand holding through new tasks - these tasks are new to us all so I don’t have the answers it’s just common sense. I also don’t get updated if tasks are done.
I have a feeling their parents are coaching them into what to say and the career option (mid 20s), they don’t seem to suit it - accuracy, excellent communication with colleagues, super organisational skills and very good attention to detail is essential. Rushing through work and deleting records without checking with the originator is a big no no. Luckily we are a small company so it’s easily resolved. When I point out the skills needed they dig their heels in and claim they do enjoy the job and they are a good fit. I did see an improvement after the anxiety issue but it’s gone backwards again.
I don’t know how to tackle it, I tried today but don’t know how honest I can be. My manager isn’t around much, but has been aware of these concerns for many months. The assistant is reliable for attendance, does the routine work well and makes the right noises, so I feel awful as well as frustrated to the point I have applied for roles elsewhere.