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How to explain myself to new employer

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WWYDhelpplease · 27/10/2018 14:49

We have recently been TUPEd to another firm. The new firm is one I highly respect and when I found out who the new firm was, it was the only thing that kept me at the old firm if that makes sense. I found out several weeks before the transfer happened.

Old firm had me run ragged. Overly involved in many apsects of the firm that weren’t part of my original job description and probably not what an employee should be involved in at all. I was looking for other roles.

Anyway, new employer is now in place. Our office was only 4 of us and three remain. The other is off sick and it doesn’t look like he will be back and will retire. A staff member from the new employers existing office is covering and I’d imagine will stay. Will call him A.

Due to structure of new employer, there is someone employed to do all of the other jobs I was doing that took me away from my actual job under old employer. This is all brilliant. A lot of stress and overtime gone. Hope you are with me so far.

I have tuped over as a manager. Being honest, if headed paper and business cards hadn’t been ordered before I knew it, I’d happily never be called manager again. I’m just not interested. I am not interested in the little power struggle games A is making. I am just delighted to be in one office, sat in the same seat, doing what I was originally employed to do way back with old employer. I think A wants to be branch manager.

Meeting with new boss tomorrow. How to I tell him I don’t want to be involved. I just want to come to work, do what I need to and for those bosses that matter to be happy. I am not interested in titles or power struggles. An easy life really.

How do I put that across so they know I am committed but without staying I don’t care? Does that all make sense?

Any tips you can give I’d be grateful.

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Kool4katz · 27/10/2018 14:52

I don't think you should say anything for now. In your shoes, I'd be biding my time and seeing how it was panning out before laying my cards on the table.

WWYDhelpplease · 27/10/2018 14:55

Funnily enough that’s what my husband said.

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Thundercracker · 27/10/2018 15:01

In my experience, bosses generally want to tell you stuff, not listen!

Absolutely I wouldnt say any of that about not being ambitious. You can say you are really pleased that X is doing certain jobs you had found yourself doing and that now you can focus on doing a good job, and that you are committed to the new organisation and enthusiastic. Nothing that can be used against you!

LakeIsle48 · 27/10/2018 15:08

I wouldn't say anything for now. At the meeting present the manager with a list of your job description/duties? Be friendly and dont go in anticipating any problems. The past is over. Hold you head up and stick to your duties. Don't become antagonistic. Stay professional, friendly and assertive. Let us know how you get on.

daisychain01 · 27/10/2018 15:41

How to I tell him I don’t want to be involved. I just want to come to work, do what I need to and for those bosses that matter to be happy. I am not interested in titles or power struggles. An easy life really.

A new boss is not going to want to hear the message you'd like to give him. And is likely to have other plans which involve getting to know which of his crew want to make an impact, deliver, all the stuff that a manager is paid to do, and expected to lead on.

It would be like burning your bridges to be so open.

Keep your powder dry, I am sure A will be telling management what they want to hear.

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