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Working nights with 2 children?

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Hmsxoxxx · 26/06/2018 21:35

Hi all 😊
I’m looking for some advice as I’m currently stuck on what to do..
I have 2 young children, 7 and 18 Months.
I am currently doing an Access to Health course part time (2 years) with the goal of becoming a midwife and have just finished my first year.
I currently work 14 hours at my local supermarket but have just managed to get a x2 12 hour night shift job (6pm-6am) as a care assistant, it’s less pay than what I’m on now, but more hours so I am still better off, also I am desperate to get some care experience to strengthen my university application so I can start ASAP (I’m 25 and not getting any younger!)
Only issue is, it’s a rotation shift. One week weds, thurs nights and the other Saturday and Sunday. Weekend one wouldn’t be a problem as my partner is off so I will be able to sleep, and Thursday evenings would be ok as he finishes at 12pm on a Friday so I would just need to keep myself awake. But Wednesday nights is worrying me a little as Thursdays I would ideally need to put her in childcare, but would only want to put her in 8-12pm. Would having 4 hours sleep before starting again Thursday night be realistic? I have never worked nights before or a 12 hour shift! How do people manage working nights with children?

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LMN2286 · 06/08/2018 22:47

No advice but just wanted to say well done. I would love to do midwifery but am too nervous on how to do all this childcare malarkey that I keep thinking il just put off until they are older at school but then I won't be starting training till I'm in my 40s. I think you are really courageous to go for it and I really hope you find a solution to your childcare soon. Good luck.

theanonymum1 · 06/08/2018 22:50

Place marking because I’m looking for night shifts too and am wondering how I’ll cope with two year old DS

1nina · 06/08/2018 23:44

It really depends on how well you can sleep in the day between shifts and how well you cope with minimal
sleep?! I work two nights a week (currently on Mat leave with DC2) but will go back doing the same. Night shifts are tough but I find it works for us and means I don't miss much time away from DC as he's asleep when I'm at work anyway.

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