I want a baby with my long term boyfriend. The feeling is mutual between us, however, we both do night shifts. I'm thinking ahead to when I need to go back to work. -How many weeks after do I need to go back to work? -How will I work nights while looking after a baby? -Is there any care or support I can get? (I'm against someone else caring for them as I think it will be neglecting them on my half). There is not many options available for day shift in the area I live in so that is pretty much out the question and I'm happy where I work but the questions scare me. Please help me mothers of the world. I don't want to rely on benefits to feed my child but I do want to create a new life.[confused][hmm][sad]