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Have you ever quit a job soon after starting?

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stripe8 · 16/06/2018 20:08

Advice please :(

I haven't been in a job long at all but it's not going well. I keep making mistakes, colleagues haven't accepted me and I don't seem to fit in with the culture. It's a career change and not what I was expecting, as I don't even do the things I was strongest at in my previous job :(

Managers have been making a big deal of the fact I am on the quieter side. I am quite a private and independent person, I do have social anxiety but I thought I was generally okay - I'm never going to be an extrovert but I do talk to people and I'm friendly etc. But apparently that's not enough.

So my question is - have you ever been miserable in a new job and quit very soon? What was the reaction and did this harm you in your job search?

OP posts:
Strax · 17/06/2018 07:35

I left a job once within my probation period when only a week's notice was needed. It was quite a new company and they just weren't getting any work in, we spent our days trying to fill in time. I started at another job and the company folded a couple of weeks after I'd left leaving the employees with a fight to get paid, I had a lucky escape.
Another job I had I went for an interview elsewhere after being there two weeks. I hated it. Didn't get the other job though so stayed and found things improved and I ended up being there happily for over ten years. Now I would always give it a good couple of months to see how things settle. It can take a while to adjust.

chickenowner · 17/06/2018 08:30

stripe8

I don't know. I went home on a Friday at normal time, and emailed her letting her know I wouldn't be returning on Monday. She rang my mobile a couple of times but I ignored it.

I hadn't signed a contract so there was nothing she could do.

PositiveAttitude · 17/06/2018 08:44

I went in on day 2 and handed my notice in. Had to work another 4 days notice period. It was a total mistake taking the job in the first place and the best thing I did to get out as soon as I did. If you aren't happy just go!

dorothyparka · 17/06/2018 14:29

I sympathise op. I started a new job just over 2 months ago. I hate it - it's much more junior than I was expecting, there's no training and I'm twice the age of everyone else (so some lovely casual ageism - comedy incredulity that I have a mobile, can use Excel etc Hmm). I'm on month 3 of photocopying and filing. It's a change of career but I'm beyond bored and sick of being treated like an idiot. I don't have another job to go to and can't afford to be out of work for more than a few weeks but I'm considering quitting any way not least because I'm not sure I'll pass my probation (I'm not 'banter'-y enough) and also because I'm losing touch with the skill set and confidence I brought to the role.

BakedBeans47 · 17/06/2018 19:13

Luckily my contract hadn't arrived so there was nothing they could do.

There wouldn’t have been much more they could have done even if your contract had arrived! It’s a bit of paper, not a set of handcuffs

between4and7 · 17/06/2018 21:11

1 week but had another job to go to. I started on day 1 and had a call from another job I applied for the wanted to interview me ASAP. I hate to leave work an hour early mid week so lied and said I had the dentist. Was given the job with a start date of Monday.

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