Had an interview for a civil service post, which I didn't get. I felt the feedback on the competency-based questions was absolutely spot on. However, at the end of the interview, I had one strength-based question, which was "Tell us about the thing you've done in the last year that you're proudest of."
I immediately answered completing my MA, as this has taken me years part-time, alongside juggling multiple work and family commitments, and I was really proud of finishing my dissertation and doing well. For this response, I scored a "3".
Which makes me wonder what would score a 5 or 6? Had I answered instead, which is also true, that I was proud of spending time with my DF as he was dying, would this have been rated as higher or lower than completing an MA? What about if I'd picked a work example??
I simply don't see how anyone can possibly 'rank' other people's feelings of pride in something objectively, let alone give it a numerical score, let alone think that that provided any remotely useful basis for making decisions in an employment area that has nothing to do with any of this?
My dh, who also works in the civil service and has both conducted and taken part in many, many interviews, says he has never heard of the strength-based question being used like this, and suggested I should query this. But I'm reluctant to do this, as I might want to apply for other posts there, and wouldn't have qualified for the role anyway, on the basis of my other scores.
But going forward, I'd like to be able to do better in this question. Does anyone know what kind of response would get a high score?? Do I have to say I climbed Mount Everest or pushed through a bit of work against all the odds? What if it's something outside work that I'm actually proudest of? How is this or can this be scored?
FWIW, I do also wonder if a bit of unconscious ageism and/or sexism may also have been at play - my interviewers were both early 30s at most and I wonder if seeing me as an 'older mum' (it's obvious from my CV that I've fitted work around children) might have made them see me as less suitable for a management role, or feel less comfortable having me working under them? Also, not really 'getting', as it's so outside their experience, how completing an MA in your 40s against a backdrop of multiple competing work and family demands is actually a huge achievement, and much harder than doing it straight out of university as a full-time student?
All thoughts helpful, thanks.